It's been a while... should have seen it coming

Apr 13, 2009 19:25


My father just told me that I make it really hard to love me and care about me ( Read more... )

family, father, arguments, abuse, self-esteem, life

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frankie23 April 14 2009, 02:18:00 UTC
It always breaks my heart to read that you're still going through this grim charade with the asshole. I hope you can get out of there soon darlin'. You deserve better in life.

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littlemisstexas April 14 2009, 03:37:11 UTC
I am deeply, deeply sorry that someone as wonderful and loving as you are has had to endure such cruelty from their father. There are no words hun. I just hope with all my heart that the time when you can get away from him for good will arrive as quickly as it can and when that happens, you'll have the peace and happiness you truly deserve. That the only people you are surrounded by from that point on are those that are kind, supportive and realize just how lovable and special you truly are.

If there is anything at all I can do or if you ever need to talk, please don't hesitate sweetie. I'm so sorry you are going through this. : ( I love you very much and I think I can speak for your entire friends list when I say that. *hugs you tightly and never lets go* ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Love,
Jennifer

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zahrimsthoughts April 14 2009, 13:55:31 UTC
Im so so sorry you have to go through this, that you have such an insensitive pig for a father :(

You don't deserve it, you deserve respect and pride for the woman you have become. You deserve so much better.

I hope one day you can find peace within yourself over all this and even though he doesn't deserve it I hope he eventually realises what an ass he has been to you before its too late and he loses you forever.

xxxx

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dex April 14 2009, 22:02:13 UTC
I think some correct ways to put this might include:

He's disappointed because you failed to live down to his standards.
He's disappointed because he knows you're a better human being than he is.

The hatred is more likely his for himself, but he takes it out on you.

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misshana April 15 2009, 17:59:29 UTC
I'm sorry to hear what you have read. It bothers me that someone could not show you the love and support you deserve; but to say/do the things he does to you, he obviously doesn't know you at all.

I hope you're okay.

(this is apolune by the way, but I figured you'd gather that from this screenname also being my name! Thought I'd say just in case).

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