"She asked something along the lines of why does it seem like her newer friends seem to know her more than the older ones... "
I think it's unfair for us to think that. newer friends know what we are now, but old friends are still the people you shared old memories with. but we moved on, and eventually, the new friends you have now will be old friends, well, you get the idea..
it's not a question of do you belong or not, it is a question about trust. if they were / are indeed your friends, you should trust that they would accept you for what you are now, no matter how much you have changed or they have changed.
i know the feeling, sometimes you feel that there's a big gap with your old friends, that even if you've gone so much with them, you can't make it the same as before..
i agree that the old friends are who we shared memories with and our earlier lives with... but i don't think it's unfair to think that way because it's a little bit of a reality... (nyak, i'm not making sense >.<) basta XD
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errr..i'm not sure if i still get what you mean. :D
nyway. im kinda guilty of that also --> i only contact old friends when i need them.. naging "friendship of convenience" na din XD i cud only wish they don't think i'm using them lng.. ganun naman e. u call them when u need them, they'll call u when they need you.. but you never feel used or wat, it's just seem natural, kase if you're gonna call to go out lng, most of the time they are either too busy or it's inconvenient for them..
nakarelate din ako sa d paglabas. i stay at home almost every weekend. :) ayoko din kse gumastos. XD
*poke* *poke* ok lng yan =) do whatever pleases you :)
hahah *pokes back* :D as i've said, thoughts ko lang siya at present ;) hihi not something i feel all the time hahah i am thankful i have friends and that makes life worthwhile enough ne? ;)
Ok lang yan. Nararanasan ko rin yan minsan. But when we think of it, sometimes we are just too sensitive, we just think too much. We misunderstand intentions of other people. Tapos napapalaki ang maliliit na bagay.
I think this is part of the "mid-life crisis"? Not sure though. hehehe! Part of becoming mature? :P
hmmmmm, maybe there can be a simpler solution... (trying to sound like Dr. House) "Get up from your computer chair and pickup the phone!"
hahaha (feeling eh noh) anyway, it's not too late yet, if you really consider friends as friends, talking with them is the easiest way, kamustahan, or maybe even gossipping (since girls are girls... ;)) peace!)
heck, you have a life! use it and show it! :) be proud!
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I think it's unfair for us to think that. newer friends know what we are now, but old friends are still the people you shared old memories with. but we moved on, and eventually, the new friends you have now will be old friends, well, you get the idea..
it's not a question of do you belong or not, it is a question about trust. if they were / are indeed your friends, you should trust that they would accept you for what you are now, no matter how much you have changed or they have changed.
i know the feeling, sometimes you feel that there's a big gap with your old friends, that even if you've gone so much with them, you can't make it the same as before..
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nyway. im kinda guilty of that also --> i only contact old friends when i need them.. naging "friendship of convenience" na din XD i cud only wish they don't think i'm using them lng.. ganun naman e. u call them when u need them, they'll call u when they need you.. but you never feel used or wat, it's just seem natural, kase if you're gonna call to go out lng, most of the time they are either too busy or it's inconvenient for them..
nakarelate din ako sa d paglabas. i stay at home almost every weekend. :) ayoko din kse gumastos. XD
*poke* *poke* ok lng yan =) do whatever pleases you :)
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I think this is part of the "mid-life crisis"? Not sure though. hehehe! Part of becoming mature? :P
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"Get up from your computer chair and pickup the phone!"
hahaha (feeling eh noh) anyway, it's not too late yet, if you really consider friends as friends, talking with them is the easiest way, kamustahan, or maybe even gossipping (since girls are girls... ;)) peace!)
heck, you have a life! use it and show it! :) be proud!
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