i tried to cancel christmas this year, i'm not christian and not a believer. however, having grown up "culturally christian" i have a great fondness for the carols and the decorations and the presents and the warm cozy comforting feeling that christmas is to me. i wanted to cancel it because it felt hypocritical to participate in this event
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i send hugs.
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xxoo
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I know this seems a rather simplified way of looking at life but it is my barometer.
I had an experience of intense sadness a couple of years ago and went to a meditation workshop and worked on this sadness and brought light and forgiveness and it took it away.
Circumstantial (or reactive) depression can produce the loss of joy and chemical depression... geez... meds are your answer for sure.
Good luck honey and if you ever want to talk... im right here on the other coast!
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xxoo
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I think any reason to celebrate with friends is a good reason. M thinks that any reason to redecorate is a good one. Holidays are good in and of themselves.
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your words take some of the edge off of it all
you and m are both right
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gotta check with the lovely
will get back to you
thanks
Joe
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2) It's a pagan holiday. Jesus came later. We can all celebrate the return of the light. Especially those with low serotonin.
3) Of course it is possible to squelch your own joy. Been doing it for years. I'm only beginning to even understand the things that bring me joy, and to pay attention to what makes me sad and what makes me happy.
4) Christmas lights. We need to go on a tour. Blast the tunes and ho ho ho around town. You up for it?
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thanks for the bullet points.
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