Comments | bsc_snark: Boy Crazy Stacey Part Three

drmaggiemoreau in bsc_snark

Boy Crazy Stacey Part Three

Feb 06, 2015 18:01

So, if any of you like what I’m doing here, I’ll be snarking non BSC books over on my journal (first one up: The Devil Wears Prada. I haaate that book). Like, comment and subscribe! Shoot, that’s not it. Anyway, I’m also shilling my next snark on here at the end of this thing. Thanks to all you lovely, lovely people who commented and laughed. The ( Read more... )

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shatisarockgod February 7 2015, 02:37:20 UTC

Stacey mumbles a halfhearted apology,--Again, Stacey is such a shitty person. I'm trying to decide if it's better to hear a half ass apology or no apology at all. In my mind it's pretty much the same thing either way ( ... )

drmaggiemoreau February 7 2015, 05:31:25 UTC

I think Stacey might be a borderline psycho, and that's my clinical diagnosis ;). I get the feeling when she grow up she'll become Overly Attached Girlfriend meme with a few shakes of Fatal Attraction.

design_star_21 February 8 2015, 00:12:27 UTC

I myself think bullying is such a huge problem today because of Alex’s mindset, which is “No problem, kids are always teasing each other”. --Ugh, or "Don't be so sensitive!" I do envy the people that can let insults roll off their back like it's nothing. But some people aren't so lucky and shit like that can chip away at a person's self esteem and really have lifetime damaging effects if the shit is done enough to them. Look at all the people that end up committing suicide because the bullying just got too much to deal with. And it's horrifying thinking of the people that were bullying that person and they still don't care or even find it funny that they had a hand in somebody going off and ending their life. Behavior like that freaks me out the most tbh.

This and this was my life! I still deal with the ramifications and I hate attitudes like Alex's.

drmaggiemoreau February 9 2015, 01:18:49 UTC

I just saw a true crime show where an adult WOMAN tormented a little girl (Megan Meir?) who already had depression to suicide, and then she had the audacity to pretend as if nothing happened, and she then asked the girl's grief stricken parents to hold on to a foosball table. She posed as a boy who liked the girl, and then turned all her friends against her online, all because the girl and her daughter were no longer BFFs. And it wasn't as if they separated on bad terms, they just, you know, grew apart, as people are wont to do. There's no way that level of disturbed and nutbag thinking the mom had just magically appeared one day over some imagined insult. She most likely did similarly cruel things to other people for a number of years. So when you directly observe something, do something. It wasn't as if Claire simply called the kid a name, and he burst into tears. She repeatedly called him a name*, even after he was crying his eyes out, and even after Stacey told her to stop. Do kids namecall and act like shits sometimes? Yes. But ( ... )

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guitar_hwy_rose February 7 2015, 06:45:57 UTC

Your snarks are my favourite since 3_foot_6
Keep them coming!

heymalice February 7 2015, 19:53:20 UTC

awesome awsome awesome!!! oh man this was so great! XD i'll TOTALLY be reading the snarks you post in your lj, btw! :) &can't wait for MA&the secret in the attic!

metamorphstorm March 23 2015, 22:47:55 UTC

Stacey mumbles a halfhearted apology . . . - That’s just like when someone says, “I’m sorry if I offended you” when you’re upset and it’s obvious that they DID offend you, but they still don’t want to admit it, and either you’re sorry or you’re not, regardless of why. And, sort of responding to one of the comments, I’d say the mumbled halfhearted apologies are much worse than not apologizing at all. At least when someone doesn’t apologize, they’re sticking to their opinion and/or beliefs and you don’t have to forgive them. Those mumbled apologies - the person “apologizing” will then expect you to forgive and forget, whether you feel better or not (and they might hope you don't feel better, but they can just tell people that you can't get over anything even when someone is sorry ( ... )

drmaggiemoreau March 31 2015, 00:21:04 UTC

I believe it is Alan Rickman, but I have no clue what movie that was in.

As for the apologies to the aggressor, I've done that just so we can make good and I've definitely used it as a manipulative way to get a "real" apology. I've done it less and less as I've gotten older, but when I was twelve, I was all over that. However realistic it is, it's not fair to present that as a healthy model of friendship, where you apologize for other's wrongs.

Although, I do think MA told Dawn that she wasn't sure she really liked Dawn borrowing her skirt, because it was "too tight", although I'm sure she's thought that about Stacey on a few occasions.