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brihana25

bri's Random Bit of Life Advice for The Day

Jul 13, 2011 22:00

Ten lessons learned today, not necessarily in this order and not all personal experiences:

1. Humans suck.
2. If given half a chance and no consequences to themselves, everyone will stab you in the back.
3. Trust no one.
4. If you're stupid and naive enough to trust someone, they will use what they know to hurt you ( Read more... )

randomness, stuff: people suck

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twasadark July 14 2011, 03:18:15 UTC

Bad day, eh?

*hugs*

brihana25 July 14 2011, 03:57:54 UTC

Bad day, bad week, bad month, bad year. Except I didn't know it had been a bad year or month until last week, so I don't know if it counts.

*sigh*

Thanks, bb. :)

twasadark July 14 2011, 05:04:29 UTC

Yikes! I don't know what's going on, but it sounds awful. Be kind to yourself and don't allow this experience to embitter you. I'm thinking of you.

theo_harrison July 14 2011, 03:21:29 UTC

*hugs*?

brihana25 July 14 2011, 03:59:11 UTC

Yes, absolutely. Hugs are always welcome. :)

Thank you, bb. Can I give you one in return? I think I could really use it right now.

theo_harrison July 14 2011, 17:41:08 UTC

Hug away, just be gentle because I bruise like a peach atm. :P *moar hugs*

I have no idea what's going on, but it sounds shitty, so I hope it's done with soon.

brihana25 July 15 2011, 01:37:08 UTC

*gentle hug back*

I'm anemic, so I get the bruise if you get looked at too hard thing. :)

And I think it's over and done with. I'm feeling better and stronger every day. Funny thing is I didn't even realize just how bad I felt before.

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superbadgirl July 14 2011, 03:26:31 UTC

1. Yes, many of them do. I don't. It's just not my thing. ;)
2. I don't think this is true, but maybe I'm too desperate to cling to hope.
3. There are exceptions to this rule, Mulder.
4. I've been there, done that and keep on trusting anyway.
5. Goodness. Are you defriending everyone? *clings some more*
6. Haha, probably true. I hated every writing course I took.
7. All right, I can't half glass full this one. The one and only person I loved cheated on me days after declaring me his One True Love and confessed this to me during one of the most awful moments a person could pick for that sort of thing. I have never been able to loosen up enough to love again.
8. Damnit, Bri. Burst my bubble, much? I AM THE CENTER OF THE KNOWN UNIVERSE!
9. They sound like they taste like ass.
10. (((((hug)))))

brihana25 July 14 2011, 04:03:52 UTC

God, I love you. You made me smile, laugh, groan, cry, and smile again, all in the span of the 30 seconds it took me to read that.

And no, not defriending anymore. Already did that. Don't particularly want to do it again, because it hurts like holy fuck. Though I've got a strong suspicion that there's someone on my list still that I would defriend in a heartbeat, if I knew who it was. (anon drama)

superbadgirl July 14 2011, 15:41:02 UTC

:)

For what it's worth, I'm going through a "Fuck you, you fucking fuckers and all the fucking stupid things you fucking do every day to fucking screw with me. Fuck." kind of phase in RL right now. So even if I don't know the specifics of your list, I get it anyway.

gategrrl July 14 2011, 16:57:24 UTC

And if you don't mind, I might use that line sometime. In a totally appropriate place, of course.

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Truefax planet_mel July 14 2011, 03:40:59 UTC

I most heartily agree. Can you get this made into a cross stitch pattern for me? Or, you know, to sell on Etsy because you would make a mint.
Sorry, though, for the things that precipitated your list. I hope its all better soon.

Re: Truefax brihana25 July 14 2011, 04:06:51 UTC

Oh, this would be beautiful on a sampler, wouldn't it? And you're right; you'd sell a million of them.

I was thinking of getting it tattooed on my forehead, actually. To cover up the "I'm a sucker! Take advantage of me, treat me like dirt, and humiliate me at will. I'll keep crawling back for more because I really am that pathetic." one that's there now. It's ugly, and the color's been fading for the past few months anyway...

khek July 14 2011, 03:43:52 UTC

Oh dear. (((((Hugs)))))

Some days I agree with all of this. Other days, I hope things aren't that bad. I just hope that karma comes around to everyone, eventually.

Whatever has happened, I hope it gets better!

brihana25 July 14 2011, 04:09:44 UTC

Thank you. I needed that.

I don't know what the hell is up with me. Sometimes, I can't convince myself that any of that stuff is true, and others, I'm convinced that I'm an idiot for every thinking it's not. I'm very quickly coming to the conclusion that I am just a lousy judge of character, and I should automatically distrust anyone I think is trustworthy.

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