My mother just called to see if I was coming over for dinner tonight. She's going out with a friend so it's not like she's on her own. I spent all day Wednesday with her (it was her bday) so it's not like I haven't seen her. Yet she sounded disappointed that I wasn't coming. *sigh* I will not feel guilty for choosing to have a life of my own
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Get out of my house! My mom... yeah. Same sort of thing, all the time. Yet when I try to give her information or advice she brushes it off like I couldn't possibly know what I'm talking about.
Either we know it all, or we know nothing. I wish they'd make up their minds.
Well, I should get back to work. I'm doing a deep cleaning in the kitchen. Why? Because I'm insane. I get this crazy idea that I should reorganize the kitchen and the next thing I know I've pulled everything out of the cupboard and am washing glasses I had forgotten I had so I can put them back until the next time.
I had the same plan for today. Then the plumber ran into trouble installing a new vanity and the water has been off all day. I really want to wash my hands.
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Amen to that! It's as if I'm just supposed to sit there and listen to her words of "wisdom" and not point out that I'm really not a complete idiot.
I really want to wash my hands.
I hope he gets it fixed soon. I hate that feeling.
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I sort of want to make flashcards with direct quotes and dates on them, so I can whip them out when my mom contradicts herself.
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My mother would simply deny making the statement. I think some of it is she does forget but other times it's a selective amnesia.
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