Mom rant ahead...

[bluster]

Bud's back in the hospital. I knew this last night because Kim, the home health worker called and told me. I knew mom would call me eventually, when she had something to tell me. She and Bud are both very private and I've come to understand how she does things and to accept it, even when I think it's completely whacked. So I figure I'll hear

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[katyabaturinsky]

Oy. Hang in there, darlin'. And feel free to rant away -- that's what we're here for.

In the meantime, read some porn and look at the pretty. That's the best medicine. ;)

[mrlnpndrgn]

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[obelix]

{{{Hugs}}}

Please rant ahead, I'll probably do the same about my mother eventually ;-)

[aukestrel]

For some reason it's just not respectful to kick your mom in the head.

I don't really get that, but yay for your restraint.

[bluster]

LOL! Kicking your mother in the head is the ultimate sign of disrespect. Which is part of why I don't do it.

It's odd, because as much as her actions sometimes drive me crazy I still, upon reflection, understand them. At least I understand why she responds that way. Which doesn't really make it easier for me to deal with in the short term, but in the long term it does.

When push comes to shove I'm there to support her, and if supporting her means not being under foot then that's what I want to do. She needs me, but some times she needs me to be absent. It makes an odd sort of sense to me, even if it doesn't to others.

[whitepuppy]

*hugs*