Felt kinda depressed on Sunday

Apr 20, 2010 21:47

I sometimes get into these funks... The good thing is usually I just sleep it off and then I'm right as rain ( Read more... )

career, depression, dating, job, relationships

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damanique April 21 2010, 11:54:01 UTC
not like most men that seem to know exactly what to say and how to act to show their interest. One guy told me I should hit on a strip-club worker, just tell her how hot I think she is and how nice her body/boobs are and how badly I want to get into them.LOL, that's not How To Flirt. That's How To Be A Douchebag ( ... )

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bigdoug April 21 2010, 21:04:47 UTC
Well that is problem #2 when it comes to me and women. I just do not know very many women NOT ON THE INTERNET that are single... I tend to have mostly male friends. Hence the idea of looking for local dates using dating sites or social networking. But A) I hate to go on dates when I'm broke and can barely afford to go to dinner/movies/other, I don't want to be a leech ("I'm glad we're on this date oh BTW I have no money you have to pick up the tab"). And B) I may not be able to use such dating sites due to certain constrictions on my life ATM, you know what I'm talking about.

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damanique April 21 2010, 21:40:18 UTC
I hear you, I'm from the generation and demographic that doesn't know how to pick people up in real life, either. XD And it does suck when you don't have much money. The other thing, too.

No singles bar in the area? I hear that's what people who aren't on the internet do to find new single people, or something.

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bigdoug April 21 2010, 23:21:05 UTC
I'd be too embarrassed to go to a singles bar.. if I knew of one. My mother has gone to a "single parent" group for meeting people, though, that's where she met her last boyfriend. Although I guess it wouldn't hurt to try a single's gathering out.

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finalfantamania April 23 2010, 08:23:24 UTC
This post reminds me of something I would say myself... Actually just last weekend I met someone I wanted to ask out (she's hot and very single...) but because of my financial issues and her living on the other side of the state I knew I couldn't ( ... )

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quixotic_otaku April 28 2010, 02:02:45 UTC
I recommend counseling at WCC if you're depressed. It's free for students. And yes, getting your career on track is more pressing at the moment. I have met the majority of my adult partners online and I highly recommend it. OkCupid is free, where I met Emma and where one of my best friends met his current wife. It's true that the pressure is on men to spend when dating, but there's loads to do for free or very little like picnics, museums, and even a nice walk in the park. Anything you want will take lots of effort. How are you spending the majority of your time? Maybe online blogging and discussion boards are eating up too much of your good time.

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