Help! I need a personality transplant!

[beyond_wonder]

Am totally kicking myself tonight. I'm also feeling a little sick and anxious. I am a failure when it comes to flirting and men.

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[sxymami0909]

*Hugs you tight

[beyond_wonder]

*hugs right back* Thanks honey - I so needed to hear this. I feel lots better this morning. Work has been so stressful that I think I was feeling ultra vulnerable last night, but today I'm feeling better, and I know that the guy is a total douche and I'm not going to waste my time on him. I'll let him know today that I'm not that kind of girl. But I admit that when I see him I will be visualizing you bitch slapping him. LOL

[thisoldhighway]

Ok, it will be okay, just calm down. It will be fine and you will get passed this and in a few weeks you'll be over it. So just breathe deep and remember you are in control. You will decide what you do or don't do, and you won't feel pressured by some guy who may or may not be a sleeze. Okay? You are the one in control

[beyond_wonder]

Thanks hon - you're right. I'm feeling way better already, and despite the fact that he rang me last night and was hinting at a booty call I kept it cool and made it clear I wasn't in to it and I think he got the message. I don't know if he did or not. But I'm feeling better about it. I don't want to get involved with him. My instincts are saying no, and if I've learnt anything over the years, it's that I should always listen to my instincts.

So i'm just going to let it blow over and just keep things polite and non drama attached. Thanks for the advice, the calm down and support. I appreciate it so much. It means the world to me that there are people out there who have got my back, and that there are nice people in the world that care. *squishy hugs*

[thisoldhighway]

I'm so glad you're feeling better about it. Listening to your instincts is ace! :D

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