active, thoughtful LJ friends: recommend your friends and yourself!

Jan 07, 2015 19:09


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I've had a number of friends saying that they want to find more active, thoughtful LJ friends. And I always want more friends who write about stuff like:

  • an interaction they had with someone that made them realize something new
  • their introspective, thorough, and specific take on concepts ( Read more... )

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webgirluk January 8 2015, 16:43:50 UTC
1) My age and location: 41/UK.
2) My self-labels: Deep thinker, quirky, creative, open minded, analytical, childfree, introvert, non conventional, young at heart, writer, radio presenter, sister like friend.
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: Self discovery, my journey and thoughts of trying to build a meaningful social circle, deeper thoughts in general on relationships, social issues, psychological issues, hobbies, friendships, goals, the livejournal community.
4) My favourite things to read on my friends list are: As above really.
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: People who are unkind in nature or excessively arrogant. I try and focus on what is working in a friendship, rather than what doesn't gel so not sure I come with many dealbreakers as such.
6) I post entries on average once every: (day, 2 days, week, etc) About twice a week but it does vary and I'm hoping to post more. Maybe with more LJ friends where we can step into one another's lives and connect well, I'd get the inspiration to post more. I do ( ... )

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slinkslowdown January 9 2015, 00:52:51 UTC
1) My age and location: 25 / Nanaimo, BC, Canada
2) My self-labels: Pansexual, genderqueer, genderfluid, non-binary, transgender, LaVeyan Satanist, atheist, 6.5 on the Dawkins Scale, disabled, cripple, peripheral neuropathy, PTSD, OCD, panic attacks, curious, science-lover, animal-lover, furry, writer, artist.
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: Stuff about my day, posting about my transition, posting memes, music videos, furry art, work*.
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: Anything my friends post, to be honest. I like seeing what different people use their journals for.
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: Bigotry.
6) I post entries on average once every: (day, 2 days, week, etc) Day, sometimes more often.
7) Things I like to do to become more of my ideal self: Keep track of my transition and goals.
8) Also, *I'm a volunteer with LJ Support. I often post my frustrations about the work and funny things that happen. I also post any known issues affecting the site so my friends know what's ( ... )

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guardiancastiel January 9 2015, 06:33:26 UTC
1) My age and location: 23/TX,USA
2) My self-labels: daughter, friend, lover, 65% heterosexual, cat lover, writer, nurse, feminist, activist
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: New stuff going on in my life, fandom talk, fan fiction stories
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: New fan fictions, other people's life going-on's
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: Bigotry
6) I post entries on average once every: (day, 2 days, week, etc) I haven't posted that often until recently due to bad internet. I'd like to post every couple of days or so.
7) Things I like to do to become more of my ideal self: Suppress my default feelings
8) Also, I love to crochet and craft. Will be finishing school for Registered Nursing in May

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I really wasn't planning on doing this... raidingparty January 9 2015, 15:11:56 UTC
... but something pulled me back today.

1) My age and location: 35, Decatur, GA, USA
2) My self-labels: Utilitarian, White, Viking, male, straight-presenting (genderless sapiosexual), Christian by culture (polyreligious conceptually), cisgendered, partnered, social capital, potential ally for underclass
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: Primarily experiences in my own life (of late, focusing on my relationship), followed by theories about the world at large, followed by entertainment snippets: Jokes, poems, songs.
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: New discoveries.
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: Intentional harm, unwillingness to learn (especially in regards to unintentional harm), disrespect
6) I post entries on average once every: (day, 2 days, week, etc) 2 weeks, at this point? Would like to up to 1 week.
7) Things I like to do to become more of my ideal self: Pay attention. Make lists. Stop reading Facebook automatically. Connect people.
8) Also, it's...

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Re: I really wasn't planning on doing this... raidingparty January 9 2015, 15:13:42 UTC
You already know raoin, but I'm also friends with chris-warrior and wolven, and I think ye'd synch in different circles.

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starcrossed January 9 2015, 16:52:05 UTC
1) My age and location: 28, Maine
2) My self-labels: no labels
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: I talk a lot about my dance and musical theatre stuff. Otherwise a mix of RL and fandom.
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: Fandoms in common, RL stuff (really interested in dance/ballet, musical theatre and NYC.)
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: When everyone post/paragraph are 'my boyfriend did this' and 'my boyfriend did that.' Also I do not appreciate drunk posts.
6) I post entries on average once every: (day, 2 days, week, etc) Varies, always at least once a week, no more than twice a day.
7) Things I like to do to become more of my ideal self: exposure for my bus anxiety.
8) Also, ♥

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