active, thoughtful LJ friends: recommend your friends and yourself!
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I've had a number of friends saying that they want to find more active, thoughtful LJ friends. And I always want more friends who write about stuff like:
- an interaction they had with someone that made them realize something new
- their introspective, thorough, and specific take on concepts ( Read more... )
2) My self-labels: Deep thinker, quirky, creative, open minded, analytical, childfree, introvert, non conventional, young at heart, writer, radio presenter, sister like friend.
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: Self discovery, my journey and thoughts of trying to build a meaningful social circle, deeper thoughts in general on relationships, social issues, psychological issues, hobbies, friendships, goals, the livejournal community.
4) My favourite things to read on my friends list are: As above really.
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: People who are unkind in nature or excessively arrogant. I try and focus on what is working in a friendship, rather than what doesn't gel so not sure I come with many dealbreakers as such.
6) I post entries on average once every: (day, 2 days, week, etc) About twice a week but it does vary and I'm hoping to post more. Maybe with more LJ friends where we can step into one another's lives and connect well, I'd get the inspiration to post more. I do value feedback to posts as well as being there for others when it comes to offering thoughts on their life journey.
7) Things I like to do to become more of my ideal self: I like to read, to think, reflect and self create goals.
8) Also, I seem to get on best with those I guess who feel a bit *unsettled* in life or very different to the norm. For example, I'm not married, quite reclusive, no kids and am only ambitious in my own hobbies and don't really care about ambition in a career/working for someone else sense.
I strongly value friendship and those seeking real friendships although having friendly LJ friends where we can connect in our journals with no interaction away from it is fine too. I do like a mix of both and two way interaction matters to me on here.
Also, I like getting to know people who relate to mental health struggles.
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