Touch: the kinds of hugs, kisses, and cuddles that I love

[belenen]

I really love hugs. Before Topaz I rarely got good ones: either they squished my (very sensitive) breasts or they were loose and impersonal or even worse they were perfunctory pretend-closeness and came with the 'pat-pat' (BLUGHHHH, gross gross gross). But now I've both gotten spoiled and learned to hug better: full-body gentle pressing-close

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[belenen]

<3 yes! cuddles are the best!

[belenen]

yeah, me too! I feel more deeply hugged when the person is putting weight on me.

[kiwi]

I'm a funny opposite - I'm a little wary of touch. I've always considered it part of my upbringing (culturally) and I go through phases where I'm better and it's certainly something I work on, but in general it takes me a bit to get comfortable with even hugging someone. I'm afraid to initiate touch a lot

[belenen]

I also have a fear of initiating touch unless I have both discussed it with the person and done it a few times. Even if I know they are super cuddly and they have told me they would like touch from me, it takes a bit for me to get comfortable with it.

I feel the same way about my lower back! also the inside of my wrists. But I don't like to have them touched unless I'm already being sexual.

I KNOW why on earth would you blaspheme a hug like that!!! heh.

[belenen]

aw, I love that. Yeah, hugs are important!

[classical_wolf]

I love all sorts of touch, but lately I'm not a big fan of kisses. Maybe it's guy kisses that bother me. Ugh! ...But I love all types of cuddles, hand holding, back stroking, holding hands, and all of that :)

[belenen]

What kind of kisses do/don't you like?

*nod nod nod* :D

[classical_wolf]

For some reason, I don't like making out with a lot tongue/spit. I'm all for really quick (more soft) kisses. If that makes sense. "Butterfly kisses" are amazing! ♥