dream (I meet Laura and Nea in dream-Finland)

[belenen]

Comments

[sidheblessed]

I love dream-meeting lj friends -- I feel like it's a real meeting on a spiritual level.

I think so too. :)

[belenen]

I prefer the term partnered, but yes. ;-)

[belenen]

I find this comment very disrespectful. It assumes that 1) I'm doing something 'to' Ben, rather than WITH Ben; 2) you have the right to judge whether or not it is fair/right; 3) that it is not fair/right and therefore I am treating Ben unkindly; and 4) that I and my partner did not pray enough about this. I also find it disrespectful that you speak to me after a long absence and your only 'concern' is that I may be acting in a way that is unfair/'wrong.' If you were friends with Ben and saw the affect it had on zir life and it seemed negative to you, THEN you would be able to claim legitimate concern and say "hey, this seems unfair because (reason)." As it is, you cannot possibly know, and you are making judgments based on ignorance, NOT speaking up out of true concern. You can't be truly concerned about something that you do not know/understand -- you can only be worried because of the judgments you have made

[frecklestars]

It's nice to know I'm not the only one who dreams about LJ friends too...