Comments | belenen: worry about appearing insincere because of conflicting emotions / being very happy, depressed, angry

belenen

worry about appearing insincere because of conflicting emotions / being very happy, depressed, angry

Aug 12, 2007 02:25

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chillychilly22 August 12 2007, 08:00:34 UTC

I think it's good that you can separate your feelings. Most people have a hard time doing that. It also makes them a drag to be around when all they can be is depressed. I know that sounds mean... but what I'm trying to say is that people who are negative ALL the time are draining. It takes a toll on me, especially when I'm trying to help a friend overcome the negativity. Anyway these bad feelings you have will only make you stronger... it's just a matter of figuring it all out before you can move on and become whole again. :)

belenen August 13 2007, 20:53:09 UTC

thanks so much for the encouragement ♥

acid_burns August 12 2007, 08:31:14 UTC

♥♥♥

belenen August 13 2007, 20:53:24 UTC

*love*

sidheblessed August 12 2007, 09:12:12 UTC

*hugs* I don't think you come across insane, I thinky you come across as very human and very genuine. Feelings contradict each other, you can be over the moon about one thing and devastated about another all at the same time. It's not insanity, it's feeliing human feelings.

I'm sorry things are so hard for you right now.

belenen August 13 2007, 20:54:09 UTC

thank you for the affirmation and care *hugs back*

jenniology August 12 2007, 12:22:47 UTC

Hey, it's not the least bit crazy! I'd think you were a lot crazier if you sulked in every post, comment and thought for days. It just proves you're a well-rounded person when you can switch from your own sorrows to the happiness for others and such. :)

(I'm feeling very incoherent today, that may have come out wrong.)

belenen August 13 2007, 20:55:10 UTC

thanks Jen! (do you prefer Jen, Jenny, or ?) ♥

jenniology August 14 2007, 11:59:03 UTC

I prefer Jen over Jenny, so yay! :D

free2be August 13 2007, 04:40:28 UTC

You seem genuine about hating aspects of yourself. I think that feeling is normal, but the open expression of it isn't. Most people haven't got the guts to do it. You're expressing yourself; being transparent. That's what you wanted. You've achieved it, arrived. That's probably why you want a new "giant" change.

belenen August 13 2007, 20:56:39 UTC

hm, I don't hate aspects of myself. I just hate the way I'm feeling (which I guess could be seen as an aspect of myself, but I don't see it that way).

thanks so much for the encouragement! *hugs*