...And, the chaos begins.

[arielmorgan]

 My husband has emptied the funds out of all the joint accounts, and changed his passwords so that I can not access it.
He has disconnected my phone service.

I have no money, no phone, a dog to take care of, and I need to rescue my cats and personal belongings from the house.

I am trying to stay calm. I am not sure that it is working.

Comments

[sperose]

Oh god that's horrible. Do you have any sort of lawyer-ness going on? Or some sort of legal contact at base?

Call me tomorrow so I can get your house number into my phone. (or email if that's easier.) Lemme know if you need me to come over.

[arielmorgan]

I'm talking with my various parental units about what to do, including what to do about legal help.

[the_uzzy]

If you've any other kinds of joint anything with him, close them down asap.

If you need any financial assistance too, just ask. I'm sure I can spare a bit.

[vivalamusica]

Oh the maturity. Definitely make sure your lawyer is aware of what's going on. Close any other accounts/bills/etc. that you have jointly and if need be get a police escort to get your stuff back.

help with the stuff

[anonymous]

As I said, I'll be out there the 1st week of Aug and we can get your stuff. - J