"When abuse victims say they want the narcissist or borderline to get help, what they usually mean is they want them to go back to being the fantasy woman or man they pretended to be when seducing you. There’s no going back though. Even if they were to seek treatment and make some improvements, they’re not going to become the love bomber again ( Read more... )

Sebastian, Crimson, and I have been encouraged by family, friends, and loved ones, to share our story when we feel comfortable, to free ourselves from the shadow of deception laid over us. Our intention is not to harm James. It is also not in my nature to hide in shame or silence. I understand speaking out against an abuser is often looked down ( Read more... )

I just spent a few precious minutes perusing my public LJ entries. Since I have been occasionally posting here privately I suppose it was simply a matter of time before I went back to those. While most entries are vague or playful, there are a few that are certainly not. After reading, I felt compelled to address some personal issues, specifically ( Read more... )

'Dumbledore says people find it far easier to forgive others for being wrong than being right,'

I am
absolutely
devastated.

My kindred spirit, Pollytrance, a beautiful, brilliant, soul with many names, has been taken from me, from us. For all the words we have shared over the past decade, I am left without real words to give. I will miss you forever.

Pee-wee Herman is inviting you & all your friends back to Puppetland ( Read more... )

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Happy Beltane!

As if I couldn't love Paul Ruebens anymore :)