I just don't get it...

[amethyst_orbs]

What is it about men that makes them obsess over physical relationships? Is it that difficult to resist?

Comments

[ebon_earth]

For guys? Hell yeah... Just figuring this out?

[amethyst_orbs]

You're not a guy.

[ebon_earth]

So? Just because I'm not a dog doesn't mean I don't know why they like getting their belly rubbed. Guys are just like that, only instead of the belly they prefer to get rubbed a little bit further south.

[amethyst_orbs]

I don't think all men are like that...

Private to Nata

[bug_nerd_shino]

What's your problem now?

Private to Shino

[amethyst_orbs]

I was... Confused... I was hoping someone could explain it to me.

Re: Private to Nata

[bug_nerd_shino]

So you go to the most vulgar woman you can find? This is personal Hinata, you should not discuss our issue here.

Re: Private to Shino

[amethyst_orbs]

I was speaking in general, Shino... It's more or less a fact in girl lore that men are like that, I was looking for clarification from those with... Experience in the area... And she's not being that bad. She seems to be toning it down tonight...

[demonnarcissist]

Remove his hands, penis and tongue.

[amethyst_orbs]

Why on earth would I want to do that?

[demonnarcissist]

He will be able to resist.

[amethyst_orbs]

I'm not sure that forcing it on them is the best method...

[chainsmoker88]

...it isn't that we obsess...we just really really like it. Which is a reason we go with relationships, because we tend to think about if the person we're with would fit our intimate needs. It's a bit complicated trying to explain this thoroughly so I'll put it in simple terms; We tend to think with our dick most of the time.

Sure you may run into a few who don't really care, but at your age "Sex" is a big deal. Just let Shino know that either you want to wait until your ready, smack him on the nose, tell him "No" firmly, and he should wait until you're ready.

[amethyst_orbs]

I get the feeling this is one of those "you won't get it until you get there" things...

I don't know about smacking him on the nose, but he knows how I feel. Is there a... Limit to how patient a person can be?

[chainsmoker88]

Ehh...yeah pretty much.

Sure there's a limit, but if he really cares about you and wants to be serious with this relationship, then most men would oblige with the request of waiting. Plus the gratification of actually having sex after waiting that period of time is astounding. It's a big boost for the both of you.

I waited until my partner was ready in the last serious relationship I had, once she felt like she wanted to express herself that way I jumped the opportunity. However if he is continually forcing the subject onto you, there is a high possibility of some sort of harassment. I'm pretty sure you wouldn't have to worry about that with Shino.

[amethyst_orbs]

I'm starting to get really tired of all these "rites of passage"...

It seems cruel to draw things out like this... I can't help but feel guilty about waiting, but I'd feel worse if I didn't. It's terribly frustrating...

[fatedperfection]

It doesn't sound like your boyfriend respects you very much.

I think I'll need to have a little chat with him on how to treat the heiress to the Hyuuga clan...

[amethyst_orbs]

Of course he does. I just... Have difficulty grasping this mindset of the male species.

[fatedperfection]

I think that both men and women feel at times that their opposite sex is some sort of a mystery, an enigma. And in a way, we are. I will never know or experience what you go through as a woman, and you will never know what it is like to be a man

[amethyst_orbs]

Things would be much simpler if I had any talent for talking about this kind of thing...

Thank you Nii-san. You make the experience sound much more... Beautiful, than I thought.

And I don't think I'd have to worry about that. People who don't intend to call don't usually want you to live with them. At least I don't think they do...