...it isn't that we obsess...we just really really like it. Which is a reason we go with relationships, because we tend to think about if the person we're with would fit our intimate needs. It's a bit complicated trying to explain this thoroughly so I'll put it in simple terms; We tend to think with our dick most of the time.
Sure you may run into a few who don't really care, but at your age "Sex" is a big deal. Just let Shino know that either you want to wait until your ready, smack him on the nose, tell him "No" firmly, and he should wait until you're ready.
Sure there's a limit, but if he really cares about you and wants to be serious with this relationship, then most men would oblige with the request of waiting. Plus the gratification of actually having sex after waiting that period of time is astounding. It's a big boost for the both of you.
I waited until my partner was ready in the last serious relationship I had, once she felt like she wanted to express herself that way I jumped the opportunity. However if he is continually forcing the subject onto you, there is a high possibility of some sort of harassment. I'm pretty sure you wouldn't have to worry about that with Shino.
I'm starting to get really tired of all these "rites of passage"...
It seems cruel to draw things out like this... I can't help but feel guilty about waiting, but I'd feel worse if I didn't. It's terribly frustrating...
When you're that serious about someone, it can be frustrating, but sex should be pleasing for the both of you, not just the one person. Unless it's a drunken floozy from the bar, then it's fair game.
Just let him know when you're ready, us 'men' have a tendency to not pick up on that sort of information when it's not said or suggested.
Sure you may run into a few who don't really care, but at your age "Sex" is a big deal. Just let Shino know that either you want to wait until your ready, smack him on the nose, tell him "No" firmly, and he should wait until you're ready.
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I don't know about smacking him on the nose, but he knows how I feel. Is there a... Limit to how patient a person can be?
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Sure there's a limit, but if he really cares about you and wants to be serious with this relationship, then most men would oblige with the request of waiting. Plus the gratification of actually having sex after waiting that period of time is astounding. It's a big boost for the both of you.
I waited until my partner was ready in the last serious relationship I had, once she felt like she wanted to express herself that way I jumped the opportunity. However if he is continually forcing the subject onto you, there is a high possibility of some sort of harassment. I'm pretty sure you wouldn't have to worry about that with Shino.
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It seems cruel to draw things out like this... I can't help but feel guilty about waiting, but I'd feel worse if I didn't. It's terribly frustrating...
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Just let him know when you're ready, us 'men' have a tendency to not pick up on that sort of information when it's not said or suggested.
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