I think that both men and women feel at times that their opposite sex is some sort of a mystery, an enigma. And in a way, we are. I will never know or experience what you go through as a woman, and you will never know what it is like to be a man.
The only thing we can do is try to learn from one another as much as possible, and to try and understand.
If you are not ready to make such a leap in your relationship, you need to tell your boyfriend clearly, and don't beat around the bush. We aren't good at figuring out riddles or puzzles. Men need to be told straight-up and at face value how the women they are with are feeling about something.
If he still doesn't respect your wishes and keeps pressuring you, then it's obvious he doesn't respect you as a woman. You are your own person. You shouldn't have to change for any man at all.
I don't know if he thinks along the same lines as me, but sex is something amazing, meant to be shared between two people. It's a joining of two bodies and fusing them into one, complete whole, a union of sorts. For me, even though the act itself feels utterly incredible, it's looking down (or up) at the face of my partner and seeing their expression, knowing that they look so euphoric because of me that really does it.
If you do take that step with him, and he doesn't call you even if he says he will... let me know. I promise I won't hurt him too badly.
Things would be much simpler if I had any talent for talking about this kind of thing...
Thank you Nii-san. You make the experience sound much more... Beautiful, than I thought.
And I don't think I'd have to worry about that. People who don't intend to call don't usually want you to live with them. At least I don't think they do...
You and I are not particularly loquacious people, and there's nothing wrong with that. Sometimes we just have nothing to say.
Sex is a very beautiful thing. It's meant to be shared with someone you love or care about very much. Being intimate with someone is a great way to express deep affections, and orgasms promote oxytocin, which is basically known as the 'love hormone'. It deepens feelings of closeness with your partner.
...Oh? Your boyfriend asked you to move in with him? Have you considered it seriously?
I think I stopped when I got to the fifth way that things would go horribly horribly wrong...
There are so many variables that he doesn't seem to even be aware of, and considering the fact that Fate hates me, something is bound to go badly. If I don't screw things up on my own, father will probably try to kill him the moment he finds out about even the remote possiblity... Not to mention the fact that Shino's apartment only has one bedroom...
The only thing we can do is try to learn from one another as much as possible, and to try and understand.
If you are not ready to make such a leap in your relationship, you need to tell your boyfriend clearly, and don't beat around the bush. We aren't good at figuring out riddles or puzzles. Men need to be told straight-up and at face value how the women they are with are feeling about something.
If he still doesn't respect your wishes and keeps pressuring you, then it's obvious he doesn't respect you as a woman. You are your own person. You shouldn't have to change for any man at all.
I don't know if he thinks along the same lines as me, but sex is something amazing, meant to be shared between two people. It's a joining of two bodies and fusing them into one, complete whole, a union of sorts. For me, even though the act itself feels utterly incredible, it's looking down (or up) at the face of my partner and seeing their expression, knowing that they look so euphoric because of me that really does it.
If you do take that step with him, and he doesn't call you even if he says he will... let me know. I promise I won't hurt him too badly.
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Thank you Nii-san. You make the experience sound much more... Beautiful, than I thought.
And I don't think I'd have to worry about that. People who don't intend to call don't usually want you to live with them. At least I don't think they do...
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Sex is a very beautiful thing. It's meant to be shared with someone you love or care about very much. Being intimate with someone is a great way to express deep affections, and orgasms promote oxytocin, which is basically known as the 'love hormone'. It deepens feelings of closeness with your partner.
...Oh? Your boyfriend asked you to move in with him? Have you considered it seriously?
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Define seriously?
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There are so many variables that he doesn't seem to even be aware of, and considering the fact that Fate hates me, something is bound to go badly. If I don't screw things up on my own, father will probably try to kill him the moment he finds out about even the remote possiblity... Not to mention the fact that Shino's apartment only has one bedroom...
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