It's Done

[aiyokusama]

That's it, I'm done.  It's done.

I sat the BF down and told him I was finished.

I gave him a month to show improvement.  He showed a little, bit, emphasis on LITTLE.

He got a new job that he likes and pays better, which is great.  And he finally cleared some space in the Storage like I've been bugging him to do for MONTHS.  But that is it.

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Comments

[anthraciteowl]

What a baby. Sounds like you're well rid of him.

I hope the eviction goes smoothly and painlessly.

[aiyokusama]

so far...so good. We'll really know at the end of the month but I'm finding it easier to just BREATHE in the apartment now....which is good but kind of sad.

[genclay]

*Hugs*

I know this is hard, but it in the long run this is probably the best for the both of you.

[aiyokusama]

That's the sad thing, it's NOT hard. It's easy and HUGE frickin' relief o.o

[aiyokusama]

I told him that in a year, if I'm around/available he can look me up. But...yeah, not healthy. he needs to get his act together first and foremost.

[aiyokusama]

Don't be...really. I'm good, happy even, which is kind of sad.

If there had really been something there, letting go would be harder, yes?

[babydracky]

Well... I supposed it is for the best.
You're unhappy and you do have right to want a man who will take care of you è_é

[aiyokusama]

Thank you :)