It's Done

[aiyokusama]

That's it, I'm done.  It's done.

I sat the BF down and told him I was finished.

I gave him a month to show improvement.  He showed a little, bit, emphasis on LITTLE.

He got a new job that he likes and pays better, which is great.  And he finally cleared some space in the Storage like I've been bugging him to do for MONTHS.  But that is it.

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[kagehikario]

Ouch...

It sounds like you made the right, strong, firm choice.

*hug* It sucks, but you did the strong, mature thing I think

[aiyokusama]

*sigh* well one of us had to and it sure wasn't going to be him.

Thanks.

[smgriffin]

*hugs*

Hard and frustrating, but congradulations. *hugs again* You don't deserve to be his parental unit and it is not too much to expect a level-to-level relationship.

If you need someone to 'take care of him' in the next month, I'm totally willing to drive down and...

>.>
<.<

'Visit.'

[aiyokusama]

thanks :) I'm sure I'll be fine, given that I CAN kick his ass to the curb and he knows it.

[laramoon]

*hugs you* Sounds like my relationship... except I'm not strong/intelligent/decided enough to end it. Of course, we own a house together and he does pay for half of everything... but we never talk and he hasn't touched me in close to a year. (yeah, I'm an idiot...)

Anyway... I'm giving you major props for taking the steps to get yourself out of a relationship like this and on the path to a happier life.

*hugs*

[aiyokusama]

*OUCH* Yeah, co-owning a house makes things complicated.

*HUGS*

I hope you can beat some sense into your guy.