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warsawpact November 27 2006, 00:54:29 UTC
What happened to you was not your fault, you're not a slut or a whore.

I'm sorry things have been so difficult for you trying to cope with all that going on would be difficult for anyone, let alone someone whoes keeping a secret like you are and feeling bad about yourself. But there's no reason to feel bad about yourself you didn't do anything wrong what happened was in no way your fault.

I hope things improve for you.

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stac46days November 27 2006, 04:19:38 UTC
I know it wasn't my fault but at the same time I don't know. I am not sure that makes sense...haha. I appreciate your kindness. I know things will get better eventually, it just takes time.
Thank you

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warsawpact November 27 2006, 04:36:48 UTC
It may seem like in hindsight that you could have done something more than you did, but really look at what happened he's a big guy and he took advantage of you. It's not your fault and you shouldn't blame yourself for the actions of someone else.

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fightsactualfoo November 27 2006, 01:53:50 UTC
I'm really sorry this happened to you. You're not responsible for what the person did to you in his truck; he is.

I hope you stay safe from SI; it may seem like it helps now, but it really doesn't in the long run. It's been over 5 years since I've cut, but I still have the scars to remind me.

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stac46days November 27 2006, 04:16:21 UTC
5 years, wow. The scars for me have always been a source of shame. My left arm looks like it belongs to someone else. In fact I have to show it to my therapist/boss tomorrow to prove I have been SI free. It is a long road but when I hear that you can be successful it gives me hope.
Thank you

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fightsactualfoo November 27 2006, 04:19:27 UTC
I'm glad you have hope; you absolutely should. It was difficult, but I did it. All of your problems don't go away when you stop cutting, but it does make one less for you to worry about. You can stop for good; I know you can.

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passiondreamer November 27 2006, 06:48:05 UTC
i'm so sorry this happened to you. sending you lots of hugs.

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alekaattic November 27 2006, 08:00:55 UTC
im so sorry... i'll be thinking of you these holidays, you can make it, i believe in you!

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msfirstmom November 27 2006, 14:19:59 UTC
Is your father on hospice care?

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stac46days November 27 2006, 16:35:05 UTC
No he isn't, because he is still smoking and living unhealthy the doctor said that there was nothing that can be done. He needs a transplant but they are unwilling due to his habit. A pace maker might be an option at somept

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