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big hugs passiondreamer October 14 2006, 02:43:11 UTC
i'm so sorry you're having bad day. i don't really know what to say, i, myself am not in a good place right now, but i am sending you lots of big hugs. i do hope you are safe.

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sistahraven October 16 2006, 19:31:22 UTC
Oh... I know that feeling... and it's so horrible.

Feeling like your best wasn't good enough is so triggering. I had a relationship that ended despite me doing everything perfectly, and it just shattered my hope.

Something that my dear friend embermwe used to tell me was "I only lose that which I give up on" - meaning that if you gave it your all, you did so much more than most people ever would, and that you knew that it was someone else needing something different. You never gave up, therefore it was her problem she walked out on someone with such strength and determination ( ... )

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mauvedragon October 17 2006, 03:40:45 UTC
This is the same ex I mentioned before who has DID.

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sistahraven October 17 2006, 04:06:53 UTC
Oooh, yeah... DID can put a big, big damper on a relationship. More than once one of my dissociated identities has told off my husband. It can make things so much more complicated.

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