:( I'm sorry that I can't help you much on what you're going through...b/c I don't know what it feels like ....but when I thought things were going downhill I'd listen to these self-help tapes whatever on itunes from this guy ...and he basically says to tell yourself that you WILL be happy without him and that YOU can create your own happiness. I'll let you listen to it when I get back. But yeah, I guess you're going through the transitional phase but hopefully you'll be able to find happiness in regaining your independence...if that makes sense.
aww khathy.. you're going through the motions. i know how you feel, even though my situation was a lot more different yet similar at the same time.. if you want to talk anytime, i'm here. after all this, you'll find that you have matured and that things happen for a reason. it took me a while to find that out but everything did work out in the end for me. take your time to heal and go on, but don't take too long and keep in mind that it's up to you to grow and make things better for yourself. it's up to you to make the best out of it all.
When something happens to someone I love, I try to put... all of myself in their heart, to try and take away a little bit of their hurt for them. But I can't seem to do that with you. I want to stay strong for you, and just the idea of your little heart hurting... it makes me feel... helpless. But I have an idea. What time are you free Friday?
=( ... it's one of the hardest things in the world to handle... i can't say i know exactly how you feel, i don't. but i've been through similar and every time i reach my lowest, i keep thinking that it'll make me stronger. and you're such a wonderful person.. it seems like all this came out of NOWHERE.. like things were good.. then okay.. then all of the sudden he's so different. i'm sorry i can't do more. i wish you were closer so i can give you a big giant hug and get you an even bigger cup of coffee. and we can sit and talk or drink or smoke or laugh or cry or sit quiet staring at eachother ;). and then we can have a party in my pants! crystals invited of course. i hope you're doing okay, sweetie! if you ever need to vent or talk or anything, just msg or call. i hope i see you soon! keep that chin up khathy!!! <33333333 *tight hug*
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and you're such a wonderful person.. it seems like all this came out of NOWHERE.. like things were good.. then okay.. then all of the sudden he's so different. i'm sorry i can't do more. i wish you were closer so i can give you a big giant hug and get you an even bigger cup of coffee. and we can sit and talk or drink or smoke or laugh or cry or sit quiet staring at eachother ;). and then we can have a party in my pants! crystals invited of course.
i hope you're doing okay, sweetie!
if you ever need to vent or talk or anything, just msg or call.
i hope i see you soon! keep that chin up khathy!!! <33333333 *tight hug*
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