Viral tumblr post

[babybeluga2003]

I'm looking for a viral tumblr post about a blogger getting asked what their most inappropriate display of emotion has ever been, and they talked about their friend's funeral. Their friend had been mangled so the funeral was closed casket, so they used a photograph placed atop the casket. When the blogger saw the picture, they started laughing because unbeknownst to the rest of the family, the deceased had been a sexually adventurous gay man and though the picture depicted him looking happy and serene, he had actually had another man's fist jammed up inside him and had been wearing sparkly underwear. the blogger had to explain to the confused family that wires had been crossed in their brain in order to explain the what appeared to be inappropriate laughter upon seeing the photograph.

thanks!