Pride is here, dear reader, and once again, the holy texts demand we take stock of our lives. What does it mean to be gay to me, in this 11th (10th?) year of the new millennium? To me, we are on the cusp of the great leap forward towards irrevocable banality and normalcy. There’s really no way to know whether the Queens who kicked off this ( Read more... )

The u.s. media is all abuzz over this Larry Craig thing. There are a few things that struck me as i watched the coverage of this ( Read more... )

when shelton and i were out west, i noticed that onesgglory had grown a beard. i thought it looked fantastic on him, and then noticed that there were quite a few other gays out there who were sporting the scruff. seeing how genuinely hot it was on other guys, i decided to give it a try myself. behold:


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how is it that i've let my mind get wrapped up in something that has such a slim chance of actually succeeding. still, just talking to him makes me light up, makes me smile, and sometimes just really laugh. sometimes i feel like i don't laugh a whole lot. i may chuckle all day long (and do, normally), but he just makes me lose it sometimes where ( Read more... )

wow, ok, so last night was mucho crazy. after being a GOOD BOY for most of the night, i gave into a few temptations. we went to Halo for some drinks, met up with jsw58 and his hag, and rang in the new year. they left very soon after midnight, as jeremy was extremely intoxicated and kind of emo-ish. that's when i started visiting the bathroom stalls ( Read more... )

tonight was fun. had dinner and drinks with dca25. i feel like it went really well, and hopefully we can do it again sometime ( Read more... )

Oh Journal,

there are some nights where all i do is cry, bitch and moan. then there are nights like tonight. it started off with the beautiful dusting of snow we received. not enough to be annoying, just accent snow. then, mike and i went to the Rio Grande and i got to flirt with Tony, my bartender especiale. then, out of nowhere, ex-gay ( Read more... )

in case you guys ever wondered what my dreams look like, take a look.

their entire catalogue (pretty extensive) is located here. for the record, Tommy is my favorite. sigh.

i watched Sordid Lives tonight, and i LOVED it. set in a small texas town, this movie really "gets it" when it comes to small southern rural towns, with all their eccentricities, and its deft touch with regards to homosexuality is handled very accurately. Leslie Jordan's role of Brother Boy was especially poignant. netflix this movie if you ( Read more... )

so, O and i had our second outing, or first official date, today. we were supposed to go out to dinner last night, but he forgot that he had agreed to work a closing shift for someone, so we had to postpone until today ( Read more... )