Pride is here, dear reader, and once again, the holy texts demand we take stock of our lives. What does it mean to be gay to me, in this 11th (10th?) year of the new millennium? To me, we are on the cusp of the great leap forward towards irrevocable banality and normalcy. There’s really no way to know whether the Queens who kicked off this ( Read more... )

law school is going great; i couldn't be happier, actually. however, this post is not about school because i have found that my sanity means having some separation of thoughts between school and not-school, lol. so i'm going to write about my frustrations with president obama/the dems vis-a-vis the recently (as in like 2 hours) announced ruling ( Read more... )

so here's the funny thing about that last LJ entry: it's like a UN resolution. it's a promise that's been made, but who knows when it will actually happen. not any time soon, if you're the betting kind ( Read more... )

whenever we get new teachers at my school, there's always the coming out conversation that i dread the most. i just usually put it off until we're out having cocktails or something and Kitho and i show up together. then it's always, "thisismyboyfriendKitho," really quickly before beating it to the bar for the first round ( Read more... )

I’ve been watching a lot of HGTV lately; i totally blame my mother for this. As a result, my nesting instinct has really kicked into high gear. Thoughts of getting our first place and setting up shop give me enough fodder for long stretches of daydreams. One of the things i’m most looking forward to is a big kitchen with lots of counter space. ( Read more... )

The u.s. media is all abuzz over this Larry Craig thing. There are a few things that struck me as i watched the coverage of this ( Read more... )

so, it's orlando all over again, except WAIT! DON'T SCROLL DOWN OFF YET! LOL except ORLANDO HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS. in fact, in this episode of the melodrama that has become my life, i'm now playing his role in another convoluted situation. apparently, i'm a selfish bastard, which at various times, i've actually owned up to. and it's ( Read more... )