Ok...This has been mulling around in my head, and I need to get it out.  The people involved, need not say anything, identify themselves, or even read it. This is me sharing my FEELINGS, and my PERSPECTIVE.  Those two things, may or may not have any basis in reality or fact ( Read more... )

November was financially difficult.  Restocking food after splitting things up, and replacing things she took with her has been somewhat costly. Needless to say, when the budget was already tight, adding child support doesn't help at all. I made it though. and December has a bit more of a plan to it then November did ( Read more... )

Ok, I let a couple seeks slip by, but it's been a busy time, both in my personal life, and at work ( Read more... )

First appointment with my Therapist today.  Mostly an evaluation/introduction session.  I think I managed to surprise her a bit, but she is willing to work with me and my unusual situations. I'll give it a few sessions to see how it goes, but I think she will do well working with me.   But she gives homework!  My first assignment is to write my ( Read more... )

I know I am still waiting on a move date, but am taking steps to make things a bit more "real ( Read more... )

I'm moving.  Not far, but I am going to move.  Staying in the same Mobile Home Park, and all of two lots away.  But it will be my own place.   Probably about a Month or so, but at least I can see an end to the way things are.

My mom has been asking over and over if the divorce is unavoidable, and why we can't co-exist.   I have, until yesterday, avoided telling her, as it would need a foundation of facts that she has not known about our life ( Read more... )

Asking the courts to delay the process was a waste of time.  I did it with the understanding that we would work on redefining us and our relationship.  Which she agreed to.  The presumption being that there would be an US to work towards, even if I was in a non-primary position.  Her new girlfriend isn't inclined towards polyamory, so there is no ( Read more... )