There's a lot to be said that doesn't always make it onto here. Plenty of stuff to go round and round (my head) mostly. I'll try to sum up my thoughts with a hint of vagueness that only you or I could get. Who's 'you', you ask? Don't know yet. Whoever seems to understand I suppose ( Read more... )

I'm reading the book, Emotional Alchemy and that paired with my lovely diagram drawn up by my therapist has been sending me into worlds of thinking, pondering and questioning. I think I know the basis of my schemas and where they came from, grew and are now triggered by those in my life (both good and bad). I can now pinpoint the day I felt ( Read more... )

Bill 183 was passed today. A silent woo hoo for all triad memebers. Whether you want to be found or not, at least all parties have been recognized for their entitlements and provided with options for obtaining so. I could be more excited but I also have some thinking to do. I shouted out adult throughout all of this, somehow more still today I ( Read more... )

Much attention has been paid lately to the latest in Bill 183 and it's retroactive approach to adoption disclosure. Much of the hoopla comes from the Privacy Commissioner and her wanting to protect the privacy of birthmothers. OK, I get it. Some of these women don't want a call from the child they gave up because it's been a secret up until now ( Read more... )