Was reminded of this meme. Apparently you can discuss both your writing techniques or obscure fic trivia. But this... became pretty much a ten-point manifesto of what my perspective on writing (and life, the universe, and everything) is ( Read more... )

There should be a proper term (preferably one of abuse) for that specific type of bitch who wrinkles her nose at hearing another woman is at all sexual. Beyond "slut-shamer" (clumsy) or just "prissy frigid bitch" (too many words). And before some poor oppressed whiny asexual starts shrieking for attention again and asking me to have their world ( Read more... )

I suddenly realised why I've never really "got" shipwars. Or, I mean, why I've never wanted to be involved in one. (I've been accused of ship hate in terms of a certain very popular ship which shall go unnamed, but it's always been about me being put off by the characters being dicks rather than anything else; it's never really been the ship itself ( Read more... )

I just thought I'd make a post explaining some of the motivations behind my extremely explicit photomanips (which I know hardly any other female fanartist makes--nearly all photomanips I've seen have been softcore and very romantic) and also the extremely explicit, porn movie-raunchy, lengthy sex scenes in my fics. I've talked about these things a ( Read more... )

What went on in my head during a typical wank one day. Inspired by having been reading Anaïs's diaries and her descriptions of her own desire and her affairs and her fantasies and her experiences. I just had to get it out, because if she can write about it, there's no reason I shouldn't. So, here we go. TMI, kinks and Connies happen, as you were ( Read more... )

I was just discussing the importance of talking about female desire with pallanwen earlier today. Because of the usual reasons of female desire being suppressed, shamed, not having a language yet what with certain terms being either corny or missing altogether, female desire being laden with baggage whether it's straight or gay or introverted or directed ( Read more... )

Not locking this because it's really important. Here's something I wrote to a guy who runs one of my favourite porn Tumblrs. He expressed great distress about the fact that he might be perpetuating abuse, when IRL, he said he really respected women and wanted equal partners. He presumed most women in the pictures had got into porn through some ( Read more... )