There are prudes and then there's this type
There should be a proper term (preferably one of abuse) for that specific type of bitch who wrinkles her nose at hearing another woman is at all sexual. Beyond "slut-shamer" (clumsy) or just "prissy frigid bitch" (too many words). And before some poor oppressed whiny asexual starts shrieking for attention again and asking me to have their world revolve around their entitled selves, I don't mean someone who just has a low sex drive, but the sort that visibly *despises* and looks down at you, physically looks at you with this disgusted gaze because you're not celibate or whatever.
Any Pagan woman with a healthy sex drive will have met this kind of type among New Agers or yogis--it's a very specific kind of prude who has serious moral issues with other women being into sex at all. And again, I don't mean someone asexual because I've met plenty who are willing to live and let live, nor do I mean a reaction to guys--it's always towards other women, because if a guy displays open sexuality, it's pretty much invariably a creeper trying to get into your pants, trying to push himself into your space and your body. That's a different matter entirely; I'm not talking about that. But to these bitches, it's as if even another woman saying she has, say, had a meditation with sexual elements that was pleasant (like maybe dreaming Krishna came over and shagged you or something) it's like you've just attempted to rape them. It's as if you being you (talking about your experience and in no way insisting everyone should have sexual meditations or whatever!) is an assault. There's this *physical* revulsion, this flinching they do and it's really exaggerated, and the slut-shaming glows from their frightened eyes. They curl up and look as if they might start screaming for help.
I mean, Jesus fuck. There just... needs to be a term for this and I honestly would not mind those people getting the verbal thrashing they deserve. It's fucking humiliating whenever someone like that comes along. Even if I know it springs from the general sexual woundedness and vulnerability of women at large, it's always uncalled-for when it's directed at another woman. There are maybe six butch lesbians on the planet coming onto you hard when drunk and in a bar and that's *far* removed from someone making a casual mention at some yoga retreat or something, you know? What the fuck do you think, that I'm trying to start a gangbang right in the middle of this asana sequence?!?
I swear to God, I know I can get TMI at times and have said and done stupid shit when drunk. I know, ok? But not at fucking strangers! Nothing to cause that kind of exaggerated revulsion and *shunning*! Especially as it's the sort of stuff I know to be highly individual, so why in the fuck do these bitches act as if the moment someone even hints towards sensuality, it's someone trying to force them into bed? Yes, they might have been abused in the past, but surely it's an exaggerated reaction when it's another woman talking about some experience *she* has had in some public place in broad daylight, not some fucking creep trying to shove his hand up their tie-dyed skirt?!?
Ordinary female prudishness is something I'm so fucking tired of in general, but there is this specific type that's just... the worst. It's the one that goes beyond ordinary conservative and/or mundane/ordinary boring women (the types who think a chick with cleavage is out to seduce their husband even if she shows up with a boyfriend in tow). And it's *always* the fucking New Agers as well, the sorts who are attracted to spiritualities that aim to transcend this icky sticky body and idealise asceticism and shit. But... Ok. Again, if that's your thing, it's your thing. But you don't need to be a judgemental arsehole about it. Any more than I will come and try and force you into some fucking orgies this very minute or whatever you fear it is I am doing, my dear prissy friend. Like, fucking hell, unlock those bottom chakras already and pull that stick out of your arse.
Is there a term already or do I need to invent one?
Any Pagan woman with a healthy sex drive will have met this kind of type among New Agers or yogis--it's a very specific kind of prude who has serious moral issues with other women being into sex at all. And again, I don't mean someone asexual because I've met plenty who are willing to live and let live, nor do I mean a reaction to guys--it's always towards other women, because if a guy displays open sexuality, it's pretty much invariably a creeper trying to get into your pants, trying to push himself into your space and your body. That's a different matter entirely; I'm not talking about that. But to these bitches, it's as if even another woman saying she has, say, had a meditation with sexual elements that was pleasant (like maybe dreaming Krishna came over and shagged you or something) it's like you've just attempted to rape them. It's as if you being you (talking about your experience and in no way insisting everyone should have sexual meditations or whatever!) is an assault. There's this *physical* revulsion, this flinching they do and it's really exaggerated, and the slut-shaming glows from their frightened eyes. They curl up and look as if they might start screaming for help.
I mean, Jesus fuck. There just... needs to be a term for this and I honestly would not mind those people getting the verbal thrashing they deserve. It's fucking humiliating whenever someone like that comes along. Even if I know it springs from the general sexual woundedness and vulnerability of women at large, it's always uncalled-for when it's directed at another woman. There are maybe six butch lesbians on the planet coming onto you hard when drunk and in a bar and that's *far* removed from someone making a casual mention at some yoga retreat or something, you know? What the fuck do you think, that I'm trying to start a gangbang right in the middle of this asana sequence?!?
I swear to God, I know I can get TMI at times and have said and done stupid shit when drunk. I know, ok? But not at fucking strangers! Nothing to cause that kind of exaggerated revulsion and *shunning*! Especially as it's the sort of stuff I know to be highly individual, so why in the fuck do these bitches act as if the moment someone even hints towards sensuality, it's someone trying to force them into bed? Yes, they might have been abused in the past, but surely it's an exaggerated reaction when it's another woman talking about some experience *she* has had in some public place in broad daylight, not some fucking creep trying to shove his hand up their tie-dyed skirt?!?
Ordinary female prudishness is something I'm so fucking tired of in general, but there is this specific type that's just... the worst. It's the one that goes beyond ordinary conservative and/or mundane/ordinary boring women (the types who think a chick with cleavage is out to seduce their husband even if she shows up with a boyfriend in tow). And it's *always* the fucking New Agers as well, the sorts who are attracted to spiritualities that aim to transcend this icky sticky body and idealise asceticism and shit. But... Ok. Again, if that's your thing, it's your thing. But you don't need to be a judgemental arsehole about it. Any more than I will come and try and force you into some fucking orgies this very minute or whatever you fear it is I am doing, my dear prissy friend. Like, fucking hell, unlock those bottom chakras already and pull that stick out of your arse.
Is there a term already or do I need to invent one?