Monogamy is so kinky. Imagine a dynamic with such extreme submission that you literally forgo sex with anyone but that person.

- Ya I'm not kinkshaming but 24/7 dynamics are a lil outside my comfort zone.

- I’m kinky but that’s some wicked shit.

What is it about being poly as an identity that makes it a need, not a want? I could imagine not feeling jealousy and enjoying multiple partners in theory. What about that makes it a necessity, to the point where it's a deal breaker on the level of kids and religion?

Imagine one of your children telling you that you have to stop loving the other ( Read more... )

I think polyamory won't reach mainstream acceptance at the level of gay/trans because people perceive polyamory as more a direct threat. You can believe your spouse isn't actually gay/trans way more easily than believing they don't actually wanna bang someone else ( Read more... )

Had a friend once tell me she felt like she understood polyamory a bit more when she had her second child and was like 'wow, you really can fully love two people without there being less love to go around ( Read more... )