Comments | raineyflutterby: Confusion

raineyflutterby

Confusion

Dec 07, 2004 03:36

So.. This sucks. Life is utterly unfair. I don't know how many people can relate with how I am feeling. Currently, I'm in a position where I care for someone very very dearly. And yet, I can't stand the person. Yeah. Everyone thinks they know that feeling. Trust me... This is nothing like that love/hate relationship I have with my mum. NO way. This ( Read more... )

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flaggot13 December 7 2004, 13:29:19 UTC

man...guys...i love you!!!

love anonymous December 8 2004, 01:55:47 UTC

i wish i could be that person for you, the one who makes you happy, the one who takes care of you, the one who is blessed with your love.
i will not pretend to know exactly how you feel, but i am in love with you, and it seams to be a one-way street, but your a special person to me segan, i will never give up. i will always be there for you. anything you ever need, i will do what i can to help.
-moogleX

It May Seem Impossible. anonymous December 8 2004, 06:00:09 UTC

I know at this point it looks like you will always feel the same about that guy, but I predict that you won't. The emotional memory is going to gradually fade away, leaving room for someone worth more. Eventually you're emotions are going to agree with your logic, and you'll find yourself capable of falling for someone else, and saying "to heck with that other guy, this one's much better." I know this because you're a human being. Sure it may take a couple of years, but the better man will be worth the wait. There's probably a part of you that believes I don't know what I'm talking about, and that I don't understand. That the feelings you have are just too strong to disappear. But they will. Just you wait ( ... )

Re: It May Seem Impossible. anonymous December 8 2004, 10:36:41 UTC

I'd say you speak with wisdom. Time does heal all wounds, and nothing is forever...even love. It may change subtly, drastically, or fade away alltogether. In either case picking at an open wound only prolongs the healing process.

I hope both rainey and mooglex can find peace.

Re: It May Seem Impossible. anonymous December 9 2004, 01:55:55 UTC

obsession? i think thats a strong word, but i also want her to know how i feel, so thats why i posted.

Re: It May Seem Impossible. anonymous December 9 2004, 03:23:06 UTC

but maybe your right.

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Meh... raineyflutterby December 9 2004, 20:49:33 UTC

I wish I knew who was posting on my journal son I can tell most of you individually that I know I will get over him. Unfortunately, I have no idea who you are. The point is that I feel this way. I understand it's miserable, and I understand that I am going to get over it. I just talk about it so I can mentally draw out how I feel and put it down in writing. It always seems like I don't know what I'm talking about and I have trouble talking about things or making decisions because I am always confused. I was just hoping for a little clarity for myself. Maybe letting other people analyze how I feel is a good idea. But, I hope you don't find me to be stupid or even incompetent.
As to Scott- They are (He/She is)right. I do push you away because you tell me you love me. I don't love you and you know it. Telling me it every few seconds doesn't help your case. I wont love you. I can't love you. And it makes you seem obsessed and creepy and even annoying for you to tell me that you love me. Please stop.

Re: Meh... zabuzas_son December 10 2004, 20:19:30 UTC

wow, thats not insensitive at all. Instead of embracing someones love for you, you push them away as you said. You dont neccasarily have to love him back, but why cant you accept that he loves you, and at least be there for him. You shouldn't mess with someones emotions regardless of wether you love them or not.

Re: Meh... raineyflutterby December 10 2004, 21:37:40 UTC

I'm really sorry that you feel this way. I really have not messed with his emotions at all. He has known since right off the bat that I don't feel the same way. I know that you would have done the same thing I have done if you had been in my situation. And if you wouldn't have... We are different people. We deal with situations in different manners. Who are you to judge how I react to someone's love for me? This really has nothing to do with you. I'm sorry to offend you.

Re: Meh... raineyflutterby December 10 2004, 21:58:15 UTC

are you sure that you aren't messing with his emotions? Have you really stopped and examined how you interact with him? Do you use him to make yourself feel better at the expense of his feelings. Knowing someone loves you can be a two edged sword. Perhaps he still loves you because you are in some way encouraging it. Saying you don't love him, but then acting like it might be possible could be part of the reason he does still love you.

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