When you say “no,” and you mean “no,”
“When you say “no,” and you mean “no,” and the other person, regardless of whether it’s in a situation where somebody wants to attack you or a situation where somebody wants to change your opinion…
When you say no, and the other person continues, you should think immediately - not “how do I make it nice, how do I make it better” - but immediately think why is this person trying to control me because “no” is a complete sentence.”
Smart is sexy, again - “When you say “no,” and you mean “no,” and the...
Ok, LJ totally edited out my comments on here! Grrr!
I wanted to say that I'm not usually an Oprah lover but this is fabulous and powerful stuff here. It's reminding me of 3 things. Not to let others bully me, not to bully others, and not to say "no" unless I mean it. Those are good lessons. Please excuse me if I repost this from time to time. It's something I often need reminding.
When you say no, and the other person continues, you should think immediately - not “how do I make it nice, how do I make it better” - but immediately think why is this person trying to control me because “no” is a complete sentence.”
Smart is sexy, again - “When you say “no,” and you mean “no,” and the...
Ok, LJ totally edited out my comments on here! Grrr!
I wanted to say that I'm not usually an Oprah lover but this is fabulous and powerful stuff here. It's reminding me of 3 things. Not to let others bully me, not to bully others, and not to say "no" unless I mean it. Those are good lessons. Please excuse me if I repost this from time to time. It's something I often need reminding.