today, i discovered that open marriages exist irl. like, that's a real thing. people do that. people are okay with that. like, having a "wife" and a "girl" and a "monday" idk how it works actually. but it's real. what the actual fuck? my mind is kind of blown ( Read more... )

So I went in for a military physical yesterday ( Read more... )

 i never imagined that i would go clubbing with my church's worship leader.
even less that he would buy us drinks.
my congregation is interesting.

 although his visit was completely random, unnecessary, and somewhat unwelcome, it wasn't all terrible.

it didn't start off well ofc.  at one point, i honestly considered flat out telling him that i didn't want to talk just because it's been far too long.  but what can i say? i'm bad at saying no.  tbh, i got a little fidgety when he called and said ( Read more... )