I can't find the entry, or I would link to it, but several years ago, I wrote a gloating entry about looking at my ex's livejournal and finding that he had gained a significant amount of weight and become... well, way less hot than he had been when I'd tapped that. I, of course, was and continue to be a Serious Hottie ( Read more... )

Well, now that I've gotten an honest explanation (and apology) out of him, and the rage is (mostly) quelled, making room again for all the heartache, what feels the worst is not being wanted by someone I wanted so, so badly ( Read more... )

I just went and got my mail and was very excited to discover an envelope that indicated I had gotten mail from A REAL PERSON ( Read more... )

I had an awesome 24-hour-long date* this weekend with someone who made me guacamole and quesadillas with made-from-scratch corn tortillas for breakfast, along with leftover ceviche and salsa verde - yeah, those were made from scratch too. All in all, an excellent guy, and it's reassuring to find a, er, well ["kindred soul" is the only term that ( Read more... )

There's such a dearth of dykeyness in this part of the state that when I send a message to another local woman on okcupid, and it comes up with recommendations for other local women I might want to consider messaging, it recommends to me... me ( Read more... )