well damn me for not hiding my stuff

[nameless_cricke]

well fuck, I just walked into the kitchen to find my temp tattoos upon a 6 year old. I spent like 5 bucks on those when I couldn't afford to spend it because I thought they were pretty and I would use them. I accidentally left them in the boyfriends car. Boyfriends brother goes looking for smokes in boyfriend's car and finds item that obviously did

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[psitticism]

WTH? Have you had a "house meeting" about this? This is so obviously not acceptable that it pains me to read it. They ALL need a good swift kick in the ass. Seriously.

Are you okay? I can't imagine having to live like this. Something has got to give here.

[nameless_cricke]

The guy just doesn't have respect for anyone else's stuff and obviously not them either if he can't respect their belongings. It's not the first time something like this has happened ...this isn't even a big deal, it's just that it was mine and I wasn't asked ...and like my sugar bowl that ended up in the yard. There are no house meetings. We aren't roomies exactly, he lived here long before I did and the only bill I'm helping on is the phone ...course I think that I'm mostly the only one helping on any bills. but I feel like I don't have much room to be setting boundaries. ...but damn, if they had been sitting in the kitchen, I wouldn't have been surprised but they were in a car that belonged to his brother, more then likely they were mine or you know, certainly not his

[skittlebox]

the only bill I'm helping on is the phone ...course I think that I'm mostly the only one helping on any bills. but I feel like I don't have much room to be setting boundaries
I know exactly how you feel, there. When my boyfriend's brother was here, my boyfriend was always telling me to go talk to his brother about the problems. Seeing as their mother owns this house, I didn't, and still don't, feel like I have the right to speak up about certain things because I'm only here because I'm with my boyfriend, regardess of the fact that I've lived here longer.

[rustedinkwell]

That's insane. This whole situation is insane. I agree with Psitticism, something has to give.

Please, please think about your well being for a minute and try and see why you should leave, with or without Richard. Even if it's just going back to your grandparents house, it would be so much better than living with his family. Sleeping on the couch for a month while you get situated would be worth the freedom and mental health I think.

I hate telling you to leave there though because I'm not seeing the whole thing and I'm not even that close to you, but I care anyway. You deserve better. Richard deserves better. There has to be a way you can get out.