The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly
The Good
So Kristy didn't show up to court on Friday. I was kinda pissed cause I was about to go all Johnny Cochran in the motherfucker. I'm gonna scan the shit she wrote and my case against her just for kicks when I get time. I spent so much time getting ready for nothing. I explained to the judge that the whole issue didn't have anything to do with violence, it was a move for her to insure I couldn't legally get custody of my son. He read her statement again and agreed. Kristy had originally filed it on the 13th but it didn't have any mention of domestic violence just me having a bad temper, her saying I was gonna kidnap my son and that I threatened to call DCF and the police. See anything contradictory there? So she went back on the 14th and said that I had hit her to get it granted. I'll explain that more when I scan and post the stuff. I txted her phone and asked her when I could see my son. She seriously had the nerve to call me and act like everything was fine. She said she was sorry and she was just mad. I asked why she didn't go in and drop it then and she said that basically she had told her family and everyone about it and everyone would be mad at her if she did. Of course, I asked her how the hell she was going to let her family and a few old friends of mine believe that what she said was true. That's fucking insane! Because she's too embarassed of HER anger problem and rash decisions I get to be persecuted!?!? I've had enough of that, but she didn't act like she was going to do anything about it. Anyways, I picked up my son around 630 pm and avoided talking to her as much as possible. When I saw him and he wrapped his little arms around my neck I almost broke down crying. I've never missed someone so much! He was so happy to see me. I was so afraid that he was going to think I had abandoned him or something. Children really are amazing becaue they are so forgiving. That little boy is going to love me no matter what. I can't say that about anyone else.
We had the best time ever. I took him to the mall and bought him some new toys. We got a lil handheld video game, a dinosaur (he loves em), and a transformer. When we got home we stayed up and played until 130 am! I've always enjoyed spending time with my son, but I took it for granted. I never thought he might be taken away from me. It's never felt so incredibly good to just sit and marvel at my own creation. The next day we played some more in the morning, watched Sharkboy and Lavagirl (again!), and went to the park. I didn't want to have to take him back but I agreed with Kristy that I would. There was no way I could keep him again Saturday night because my 14 yr old brother was having a Halloween party and there would be like 40 teenagers here. I'm so glad I finally got to spend some time with him!
So Kristy didn't show up to court on Friday. I was kinda pissed cause I was about to go all Johnny Cochran in the motherfucker. I'm gonna scan the shit she wrote and my case against her just for kicks when I get time. I spent so much time getting ready for nothing. I explained to the judge that the whole issue didn't have anything to do with violence, it was a move for her to insure I couldn't legally get custody of my son. He read her statement again and agreed. Kristy had originally filed it on the 13th but it didn't have any mention of domestic violence just me having a bad temper, her saying I was gonna kidnap my son and that I threatened to call DCF and the police. See anything contradictory there? So she went back on the 14th and said that I had hit her to get it granted. I'll explain that more when I scan and post the stuff. I txted her phone and asked her when I could see my son. She seriously had the nerve to call me and act like everything was fine. She said she was sorry and she was just mad. I asked why she didn't go in and drop it then and she said that basically she had told her family and everyone about it and everyone would be mad at her if she did. Of course, I asked her how the hell she was going to let her family and a few old friends of mine believe that what she said was true. That's fucking insane! Because she's too embarassed of HER anger problem and rash decisions I get to be persecuted!?!? I've had enough of that, but she didn't act like she was going to do anything about it. Anyways, I picked up my son around 630 pm and avoided talking to her as much as possible. When I saw him and he wrapped his little arms around my neck I almost broke down crying. I've never missed someone so much! He was so happy to see me. I was so afraid that he was going to think I had abandoned him or something. Children really are amazing becaue they are so forgiving. That little boy is going to love me no matter what. I can't say that about anyone else.
We had the best time ever. I took him to the mall and bought him some new toys. We got a lil handheld video game, a dinosaur (he loves em), and a transformer. When we got home we stayed up and played until 130 am! I've always enjoyed spending time with my son, but I took it for granted. I never thought he might be taken away from me. It's never felt so incredibly good to just sit and marvel at my own creation. The next day we played some more in the morning, watched Sharkboy and Lavagirl (again!), and went to the park. I didn't want to have to take him back but I agreed with Kristy that I would. There was no way I could keep him again Saturday night because my 14 yr old brother was having a Halloween party and there would be like 40 teenagers here. I'm so glad I finally got to spend some time with him!