Wow, did last night ever reach unprecedented new lows of "Hard", as I sat for an initial consultation with new clients, a married couple who, I swear to ghods, could have been me and Matthew in different hairdos. It was the weirdest sensation watching someone else unfold our recent life (with variations on some themes and a couple of pertinent ( Read more... )

lightcastle lobbed the first volley: He wanted to know what I find physically sexy ( Read more... )

this came across a mailing list of generally-respected researchers (mostly poly-oriented, generally pro-sex):

While there maybe such a thing as sex addiction, the vast majority of people
who are described that way aren't disordered at all.  Some of these people,
for instance, would not have a problem if they could be open and honest
about their ( Read more... )

Gardasil Researcher Drops A Bombshell

Harper: Controversal Drug Will Do Little To Reduce Cervical Cancer Rates ( Read more... )

a pretty lad who was awake in the wee small hours this morning asked a couple of fun questions about seduction and courting, namely "What is seduction to you? What is your favourite seduction technique? (as the seducer or seducee ( Read more... )

...in a classic example of all things that went wrong as soon as women were taught to read. you know, we think about things. and we put ideas together in strange and unusual ways. it's not as simple as the whole "men/mars, women/venus" phenomenon would have the pulp-reading masses believe, but there's definitely a difference in how our brains are ( Read more... )

tacit's got a handy way of spinning things to make humorous even the most poignant of lessons. from yesterday, for example, How to Screw Up a Sexual Relationship.

an open letter to the multitudes of men who need a lesson in understanding women's approach to the blowjob. ( text-only. worksafe? unlikely :) )

i was going to make a rambling post of random-daily-update content, then someone asked a question somewhere else, and suddenly, there's something more important than my miscellaneous ramblings (which i might or might not get to later, like dealing with the fact that someone i otherwise adore as being One Of The Cool Kids secretly grooves to Michael ( Read more... )