Just for the Record

[mexican_ubanged]

1. She isnt trying to force me into anything. I knew before going into this that she had a kid and if i wanted to be with her i was going to have to accept the fact that i would take the role of the father. I dont mind that He calls me dad, it actually makes me feel really good about myself that ive made such an impact on his life that he would

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[onyrsleeve]

this definately did piss me off.
& i still stand by everything i said in my comment back to you in my journal.

[onyrsleeve]

my favorite part about what i said was this:
"stop being so fucking selfless martin because people like you always fucking get screwed over."
if you don't pay attention to anything else i said in my reply, that's fine. as long as you remember that.

[mexican_ubanged]

This is Ana. I just wanted to say something. First i just want to get one thing straight, i dont have a problem with anybody infact i like all of Martin's friends. Well i just want to let everyone know that i am not going to screw Martin over. I love him so much and i have since highschool. Not alot of people understand our relationship and how it started and that is fine. But i know we will go a long way and have a family later.

[onyrsleeve]

i never in my life said that you would screw him over. that's not what i meant at all. he's just such a selfless person that he'd stick around even IF he didn't want just for the boys sake. like i said numerous times to various people in my journal, i don't know you personally, i'm not concerned with your relationship. i hope you guys get married one day if that is going to make you both happy. all i'm saying is don't rush into anything FOR YOUR SONS SAKE. if you want to give him martins last name, that's fine - so long as you legally have it to. it's not right to just pawn him off on the first guy that will except him. slow things down a bit, dollface. establishing a healthy relationship with your son is priority. i don't want you to think i hate you or anything. i don't know you so that's not possible. i do however think you need to work alot harder on being a better mother. i know that's a tough thing to hear. nobody likes being judged, especially on their parenting skills. but i wouldn't say it if it wasn't true. and i'd like to

[mexican_ubanged]

Heres tyhe thing, Your opinion is your opinion am, How you guys parent jeremy and how we parent J is how each of us want to do it. Everyone knows he is way past the point where words dont work with him, Even the screaming she has done does not work with him. All kids are different and its goin to take different things to control them

[onyrsleeve]

i respect the fact that she is trying, i suppose. trying is better than nothing

[mexican_ubanged]

Sounds all good darling. imrealy happy we worked this out like adults and things didnt go too far.I love you guys like family,All of ya, and ill talk to her about what you suggested and we'll work from there.

BTw, have you heard anything or has phil heard anything about me about to get fucked up by a bunch of the juggalos and homeboys that hang out on gough street?

[onyrsleeve]

oh my god are you serious? no we haven't heard anything about that! he doesn't really hang out with them anymore. i know who it probably is though ... dirty brian, that tom green kid, maybe the twins? & walt? are any of these right?

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