Just for the Record

[mexican_ubanged]

1. She isnt trying to force me into anything. I knew before going into this that she had a kid and if i wanted to be with her i was going to have to accept the fact that i would take the role of the father. I dont mind that He calls me dad, it actually makes me feel really good about myself that ive made such an impact on his life that he would

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[onyrsleeve]

i never in my life said that you would screw him over. that's not what i meant at all. he's just such a selfless person that he'd stick around even IF he didn't want just for the boys sake. like i said numerous times to various people in my journal, i don't know you personally, i'm not concerned with your relationship. i hope you guys get married one day if that is going to make you both happy. all i'm saying is don't rush into anything FOR YOUR SONS SAKE. if you want to give him martins last name, that's fine - so long as you legally have it to. it's not right to just pawn him off on the first guy that will except him. slow things down a bit, dollface. establishing a healthy relationship with your son is priority. i don't want you to think i hate you or anything. i don't know you so that's not possible. i do however think you need to work alot harder on being a better mother. i know that's a tough thing to hear. nobody likes being judged, especially on their parenting skills. but i wouldn't say it if it wasn't true. and i'd like to believe that you already know this to. i love martin to death and i would never try to intentionally offend him. but he knows how i am when it comes to voicing my opinion so he shouldn't have expected any less.