Just for the Record

[mexican_ubanged]

1. She isnt trying to force me into anything. I knew before going into this that she had a kid and if i wanted to be with her i was going to have to accept the fact that i would take the role of the father. I dont mind that He calls me dad, it actually makes me feel really good about myself that ive made such an impact on his life that he would

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[mexican_ubanged]

Heres tyhe thing, Your opinion is your opinion am, How you guys parent jeremy and how we parent J is how each of us want to do it. Everyone knows he is way past the point where words dont work with him, Even the screaming she has done does not work with him. All kids are different and its goin to take different things to control them.

Anyways, Here is my biggest Beef......Ever since ive gotten with her, for some reason or another ive given her some kind of hope. We used to talk about how she was ready to send him back to florida cus she wanted to give up. But ever since ive gotten with her, its made her want to try harder and she has been. Shes taking classes, shes working doubles and overtime, she doesnt act ignorant towards him like she used too. Shes Trying her best to do good.

Everyone got on here calling her a bad mother, She seen it and pretty fuckin much broke down. Once again she was ready to give up and send him back to her mother. Im not looking for sympathy for her im just trying for you to look at it from the other side. For some reason or another, ive given her hope for her and the baby's future. She trying to get custody of him, she does wnat her baby, if she was such a bad mother, im pretty damn sure she wouldnt have him right now.

Bottom Line, She wants to do good for that kid, She wants to be the best mother she can be to him and Shes still trying to work at that, and For everyone calling her a bad mother, trust me doesnt help.

[onyrsleeve]

i respect the fact that she is trying, i suppose. trying is better than nothing.

i just don't understand. i don't know what it is, or why we're so different, but i could just never imagine not being there for my son from the VERY BEGINNING. i know it seems like i'm attacking her but i swear to you, i'm not. i'm only trying to look out for whats best for the kid.

i guess it stems from my childhood. it wasn't a very nice one. it was actually quite abusive. hence the reason i don't believe in hitting a child, no matter how hard it is. everybody was always yelling and screaming and beating on eachother and omfg i hated it. that is why i now pretty much hate my parents (my father for being abusive. my mother for letting it happen). now i'm not saying that ana abuses him. please dont think i'm saying that. im just saying that thats why my opinions on the subject are so strong.

i'm not a perfect mother. there is still so much i'm learning myself. phillip too. but we do our best. & if your interested, maybe we could hang out or something sometime. maybe take the kids to the park ... work on being the best teenage parents we can be :) that sounded lame lol

[mexican_ubanged]

Sounds all good darling. imrealy happy we worked this out like adults and things didnt go too far.I love you guys like family,All of ya, and ill talk to her about what you suggested and we'll work from there.

BTw, have you heard anything or has phil heard anything about me about to get fucked up by a bunch of the juggalos and homeboys that hang out on gough street?

[onyrsleeve]

oh my god are you serious? no we haven't heard anything about that! he doesn't really hang out with them anymore. i know who it probably is though ... dirty brian, that tom green kid, maybe the twins? & walt? are any of these right?

[mexican_ubanged]

Well, his father was at his aunts house across the street from ana's. Ana, her sister, and the baby were playing outside and justin and a bunch of them were getting drunk across the street(mind you this was like 3 in the afternoon). They kept yelling Ana and Justin's name and yelling a bunch of other shit.

Well, Brian went around for his video game with ana, on his way back from ana's about 8 o clock. on his way back home from ana's, they yelled something to my little brother like "Im gonna take your dinero you fuckin spic"

Brian came home and told me, ben, and my dad. Me and Ben got dressed and went around ana's to see what was goin on. Well, right before me and ben was about to go over there and fuck someone up, my father came strolling out the darkness and shit.we walked over there, and it was Justin and His cousin George sitting on the steps and there was like 10-15 people across the street sitting around a car.

Well, i was about to jump at justin before my dad told me to shut the fuck up, lol. But justin said it was him, it was some boy named Tony. Ana said its Brians little brother. Well, justins uncle called tony overand tony must of thought we was accusing him. Mind you most of them were drunk, so he goes in gangsta mode and starts throwing is clothes off challenging us to fight him and his boys. But the thing was, it was Justin who was accusing him.

Anyways, when tony got pumped up, his boys tried to come up into the yard we was in. I think it was the tom green kid yelling "Just walk up and bang one of them yo i got your back" All of them tried to run up on me my brothers and my father.

Tony seen ana walking up my house the enxt day and told her to apoligize for him to us. He thought it wasus accusing him and found out it was Justin Who pointed the finger at him. Saying how it wouldnt make sense calling him a spic when he is latino his self.

[mexican_ubanged]

if my dad didnt show up i prolly would have got my ass whipped cus i dont know how to keep my mouth shut.