I feel that I should write something about what's going on with me ( Read more... )

It's been two days off and absolutely nothing's rubbed me the wrong way. I must be really content or honest or something. Easy to please? Happy to please? Usually when I want something I speak up and that is that. How long is it going to take for something to trigger this damned exercise and what does it mean if nothing does?

1: When you find yourself feeling angry, upset, hurt, used, or violated, write it down. Since we don't know what our boundaries are until they're crossed, we depend on these signals to alert us. View the situation as if it were happening to someone else. How would your inner diva have handled the situation? Where are the boundries? What is okay and ( Read more... )

I'm not sure how this diva exercise will go. I don't think that I feel that "I'm not comfortable with this," sensation very often, and when I do I usually say something. People say I have boundry issues. Is this what they mean? I think that I'm pretty secure in what I'm willing to do and what I'm not. I'll, of course, go through the exercise and ( Read more... )

So I promised I would pick up my Diva work again and the book just recently reappeared so now is the time I start again. For anyone who's not familiar with the book it's called I am Diva -- Every Woman's Guide to Outragous Living and it's basically got alot of self-esteem boosting exercises. I interprite the word Diva (or Divo--masculine version), ( Read more... )