Last night was interesting ( Read more... )

I went up north to the Madawaska River, just at the base of the Algoniun Park. Absolutely beautiful. I went with T, who was my best friends boyfriend in High School. Facebook being the evil thing it is, I've been talking to him pretty regularly for almost a year. We've connected when I've been at my mom's for a quick visit at times and over ( Read more... )

Identify three things that you need in order to be emotionally fulfilled by your service and reflect on why
This could be done in only a few dozen words, but I'd rather you expand on these somewhat when reflecting on why you think they are as fulfilling as they are. Also, give me an some examples from your history or from your fantasies about how ( Read more... )

ACOA (Adult Children of Alcohoics) live in a constant stated of duality. Warring inside between their innate sense of unworthiness (unworthy of love, emotional caring, and trust that they were denied in the chaos of their chilldhood) and their innate sense of entitlement. How does one feel unworthy and entitled at the same time...>VERY ( Read more... )

- "cause you have no self-esteem ya git ( Read more... )

Anatomy of a Co-Dependant Relationship Nicole Williams( Read more... )

Of my own patterns..

I like broken people. I have desires to rescue them. I draw them to me like butterflies. I see the "them before the bad stuff happened" and try to help them see it.

I get invested. The pattern is present, of itself it's not bad...Remaining aware of when I'm making decisions in the pattern, is VITAL.

I had coffee with a friend the other night who has, at times, asked some pointed questions to me at times when I’ve been challenged to get focussed. The first time he did that, he asked me “if your primary relationship is not meeting your primary needs, why are you in that relationship?”
The other night, when discussing my lack of movement on ( Read more... )