Aug 02, 2007 08:39
I had coffee with a friend the other night who has, at times, asked some pointed questions to me at times when I’ve been challenged to get focussed. The first time he did that, he asked me “if your primary relationship is not meeting your primary needs, why are you in that relationship?”
The other night, when discussing my lack of movement on settling my finances and arrangements to allow the termination of my marriage to move forward, he asked me, “what need is the procrastination serving for you?”
Damn him. He makes me think. And as such, things will slowly be moving forward, with a phone call today, home appraisals tomorrow. And again. I say Thank You and I wonder at the universe that has surrounded me with such loving, helpful, authentic people. As per always, you inspire me.
friends,
growing,
self-awareness,
fear