Jan 16, 2009 13:59
Everyone always says that me and Mark are like an old married couple. This rant is going to be very typical of that. I have a feeling some people might even laugh. It is pretty stupid.
Mark just hung up on me over the washing up. It's seriously been sitting in the sink for the past week, and I did half of it on Tuesday. Even though our arrangement was that I'd take care of the clothes, and he'd take care of the dishes. I have never once left the clothes for him to do. I have always done the washing and hung them out and brought them back in. He has never done the washing, except when he wants like one thing washed right away. I've lost count of how many times I've done the dishes. And I'm sick of it. I know I spend a lot more time at home, and that I do baking and all that, but it's his job and he should do it.
He needs to drag his ass off WoW and away from all the pretty girls that he texts and realise for a minute that I am a girlfriend, not a housewife. Sure sometimes I enjoy doing the housework, but only when I want to. Washing up a week's worth of dishes just because he couldn't be bothered is not fun. It was starting to get ridiculous. He was rinsing tea spoons of a morning so that he could have his Milo. If he'd just washed up he wouldn't need to go to all the trouble. And if he'd washed up last weekend when I asked him too, the pile wouldn't have gotten so big, and I wouldn't have had to do it all in three different loads. I don't like washing up just because he's too damn lazy. He gets up of a morning, showers, gets ready for work, logs into WoW, goes to work, comes home, eats, logs onto WoW and plays all afternoon or he watches a movie or some downloaded TV show, and then he eats dinner (which I cook most of the time) and then does some more WoW or movie or whatever, and does that all night, and then goes to bed around midnight and does the whole thing again. He does what he wants, and gets annoyed when I spend all afternoon on my computer.
Once uni starts back up I won't have this much free time. This is my holiday, and I am spending most of it depressed and doing housework. I am always cleaning up. I cleaned the bathroom on Tuesday. It was spotless. And I've done so much washing this week, I always do so much washing. Mark goes through clothes like nothing else. And dishes. Geez. If only he'd help out, because I seriously feel like he does nothing. And then he gets the shits when I dont' do something.
I'm seriously considering some sort of action. Uninstalling WoW would hurt the most, but it would be below the belt and just be more annoying for me really. I told him I needed to talk to him, and got up him because I did the washing up, and he got pissed and hung up on me. I wasn't looking for a fight. He just needs to lend a hand. It's his place too, and he's got more stuff here than I do.
fights,
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computer stuff,
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