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爱错了人苦的是自己

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Truth: The checklists that define desired qualities in a man perpetuated by women’s magazines, newspapers’ relationship columns, and other mass medias are bullshit.

(In singlish: you think go camping ah? Checklist for what? Bring matches and raincoat issit?)

They serve no purpose other than to convolute already complicated social interactions.

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I have wrote and re-written (many times over) my loose review of the year only to find my words doing no justice to the wonderful year I have had.

How can I adequately put into words the love and joy I felt on my wedding day and feel more so each time I look at my husband, lover and bestfriend? All I know is that I am home with this man. It matters ( Read more... )

The countdown is finally officially in the single digit zone. There are a few bits here and there to sort out; more for aesthetic purposes than to do with the event itself.

I'd be lying if I said it was all smooth and plain sailing and that I was never even a little stressed. I am not usually a high-strung person (IMO anyway); just Singaporean-ly ( Read more... )

We cannot help but relate to or equate other people’s experiences with our own. It’s a women thing. Per my sister’s Masters Thesis, women are sympathetic conversationalists, we empathise any chance we get.

Reading a very close girlfriend’s posts, I see a little of myself in her exploits; well the old self at least. Being so young and away from ( Read more... )

"Zulu and I watched your sky diving DVD - sometimes I forget how beautiful you are. I love you more than anything, I hope I can make you really happy. Xxx"

And sometimes I forget how blessed I am to have Mr. P in my life.

I had woken up on Friday morning just before my phone alarm went off only to discover that Mr. P was missing. 'Must have fallen asleep in the bathroom or couch again,' I thought. Seconds later, the alarm went off and an unusually perky (he is NOT a morning person) Mr. P came running in to turn it off.

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I’ve had a great birthday; many thanks to the FB, email and text wishes. I wish I am able to articulate just how wonderful life has been.

Of late, there seems to be a war of words between some individuals. I am not getting involved but it did lead me to consider if I have been unnecessarily bragging about materialism in my life?

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