i was lured back into the seething wasteland of okcupid today, by a friend requesting a freak-check on mr.older-guy, & i discovered that my own inbox was fairly burgeoning w/ freaks & weirdos. they sure know how to find me, don't they? perhaps i need to work on my profile a bit, i seem to have something in there that attracts a certain type of ( Read more... )

soooooo sleepy! teh sweetbutt woke me up at 4:00 am- i heard him munching on my plants & trying to hack up a hairball. he had a tummy ache apparently & needed me to rub it, b/c he came & sat by my head & mow'd ever-so-softly whenever i dozed off & stopped massaging teh belly. poor guy. i really think he needs to go back on the insulin, maybe just ( Read more... )

m'kay, so a few days ago, i got a message in my okcupid inbox. luckily, i didn't get all excited (as i am prone to do about teh mens), even though our compatibility scores were rather high... b/c firstly, he's 800+ miles away; secondly b/c he's a young 26; and thirdly, he had no picture posted with his profile ( Read more... )

2 nights in a row i've dreamt about good looking men flirting w/ &/or dating me... the first night it was a dark-skinned mediterranean hottie... last night, i don't remember the features, but i'm thinking not so dark... so it got me thinking about everything i know about dating & i realize that i was 21 the last time i was 'available' & actively ( Read more... )

i am perfectly content in my strange breed of singlehood... but if i were to take a full-time lover this is what he'd be like: ( Read more... )

At the urging of la mia amica royal_spice, I will now pontificate upon the topic of the flirting habits of the American male vs. those of the Italian male ( Read more... )

am i bad person? i came back from italy swearing my undying love and devotion to tomi, pretty sure he was *the one* despite all our differences and difficulties... but now about 3 weeks after my return, i have grown a bit cold. perhaps it's b/c i only hear from him 5 minutes every week- and he always says the same things... or perhaps it's b/c i've ( Read more... )