Haven't written in awhile.  I've gone to therapy a few times and talked about issues, but I'm not really stepping out to see the BIG picture ( Read more... )

 My therapist has asked me to write down the PROS and CONS of my current relationship for our meeting on Monday afternoon.  Let me preface this with a warning - we had a small argument this morning, and right now I feel that my life, outside of work, is being drained by this relationship.  BUT, there hasn't been much life outside work (I worked 60 ( Read more... )

So Tim says…

Why do you visit home so much?

I can understand where he is coming from. I’m using time that we should be spending together. I’m spending money that could be used for other things together. I’m leaving him with the pets to take care of. 
He’s lonely.   And I am depressed/down for a few days when I come home.

There are more positives, ( Read more... )

It's time to leave, I think.  I promised myself I would not get sucked into another bad relationship, and that I would have the knowledge to know when it was time to leave.  I think it's time, but something is sticking.  Do I not want to leave you so close to your birthday?  Is that what the hang-up is?

I just got my big raise, so money is not an ( Read more... )