Courage or Slut?

[gravito]

Okay, I realize a few of you aren't going to like the subject, but after my last update, I figure I need something to grab your attention. I'm a tad bit confused as to why girls sometimes start conversations with me when I'm at the bar playing pool or whatever.

So I was a tad bit drunk.

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Watch out dear here it comes!!!

[queen_phoenix]

Well, well, well...I guess you knew I would show up to blast on this one

Re: Watch out dear here it comes!!!

[gravito]

What in the heck are you babbling about?

I don't know, I guess I'm a bit pissed off that I got sick last night and haven't felt well all day today.

You can see it in a woman's eyes though. That "adoration look". It's scary. It also seems fake. I know women see it in men's eyes all the time, but they manage or deal with it. When I'm talking to a girl, the last thing I want to worry about is why she's staring at me straight in the eyes. It's like she wants to learn and know more.

I'm thinking of making a shirt that says, "Not husband material" and wearing it out to the bars. That way I can be open about the fact that I'm a college graduate that is finacially secure and not have to worry about women possibly hitting on me.

Re: Watch out dear here it comes!!!

[queen_phoenix]

When I see that look in men's eyes yes I deal with it...I run like heck the other way...

The shirt would be a good idea...I think if I saw that I WOULD have to come up and talk to you and say Whas up? And start laughing hilariously...You just gotta find out what's going on with a sense of humor like that..

I really hope that you are feeling better...Just go with the flow of being sick...Getting pissed off seems to make it worse...I used to till I read this article that said "Release yourself and enjoy the reprieve from life and take it easy...And then it went on to state enjoy the feeling of seeing your hand reach for a glass of water and not really feeling like it's yours...Hmmm some other things make you feel like that too but ok! Since then when I get sick I go with it and just try to enjoy it...Another weirdo idea from me..

Re: Watch out dear here it comes!!!

[gravito]

Also, I guess I didn't think of your point that I should expect that from women in a bar. I mean, I don't go to the gym or anywhere else where people sometimes talk socially. The closest thing is the landromat and I can be as secluded as I like there. But when I go out to the bars it is to hang out with people I already know, not to make new friends

Re: Watch out dear here it comes!!!

[queen_phoenix]

I really have to agree with most of this posting...Most women do try to change men...I look for one that is the one I want but I have heard women...I will change that, I will "train" him...That is what kills me! I trained him that way..I truthfully have never understood women myself...If you haven't figured it out I have no female friends...they are all males and we get along great...Don't actively seek out..It is when you are least looking she will come your way but don't close down completely or you will miss out when she comes your way

[gravito]

lol. No. I do *not* need to use more ellipses. I know people that do though, and it doesn't bother me. It defines who it is that is typing. A lot of times I can tell who is trying to hide from me based on the way they type. Whereas when I imiate someone, I do a great job of it.

I don't look for women in bars. Not generally, anyway. I'll meet them there though.

I don't mind someone attempting to change me. But if they say, "change or I'll leave you" I'll say, "leave me". Doesn't matter how long she's been with me and how much she thinks I love her, if she's asking me to quit something that I did before I met her and she never said anything about it, then she's crazy.

I would not make vows with someone whose life I wasn't happy with when I made them.

[queen_phoenix]

Good healthy outlook...You will do well when you find the right one...I have hope for you!

[gravito]

edit: "made" should be "met"